Steve,
I don't think it matters what "we" would get. it matters with what you would be happy with. clearly you aren't happy with an american standard Fender, so you need to do some soul searching and figure out exactly what you want. if you want a fancy top, get it! if you want a 5 string, get it! no matter what we like, it doesn't mean a damn if you're not happy with it.
I know. It's just that I've gone through so many basses looking for the "right" one, I'm not sure what to do.
I'm pretty sure that a 4 string is all I want. I also think I want an active bass again - as long as it's a quiet preamp. I thought I liked passive, but I think I miss that little something you get from an active bass. 34" scale. Light, nice quilt top with nice finish. Not sure if I want a "jazz" or something with soapbars, humbuckers, etc.