Chet,
I'm using a jeweler's "soft solder" which melts at 1425°F, and a butane torch. The joint comes out plenty strong. The real problem is that I'm soldering brass threaded rod, which is quite challenging to clean and polish compared to most shapes people might want to make shiny. The current process involves preheating the work and then spraying on an anti-firescale compound I got from Rio Grande. Works well, but the stuff isn't available in my country, and I can't find a substitute here. I've got some ideas, but at the moment the technique is simple and effective, so I'm gonna keep doing it until the firescale dope runs out