I may not date any more musicians. The one before this one was a guitar player, and there wasn't room for him, me and his ego in the relationship!
I just heard a huge collective sob from most of TB!!!!!!
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I may not date any more musicians. The one before this one was a guitar player, and there wasn't room for him, me and his ego in the relationship!
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Very sorry for the Hi-jack, disenchant!
So, it's back to the dating game for me. And where does a 32-year old meet guys? I hate bars. Sooooo, I guess it's all about match.com.

Please, give me a chance babe.
Your right. Im tired of this crap with kids carving their favourite black metal bands name in their flesh, then think they are "tr00" and evil. The whole scene is certainly not a joke, but it might soon be if this crap goes on.
Yup it's a daily occurrence huh?
I have noticed recently, a lot of people have started calling bands like Arch Enemy and Children Of Bodom, black metal. It disgusts me that they continue to do this, when they have no idea what they are talking about.
Anyone who knows about the Vark Vikernes/Oystein Aarseth, may have also noticed that a lot of people have taken this story and changed it to whatever they want basically. A person in my school noticed a Mayhem patch on my bag, to which he said.
" Mayhem, that was that band that all ended up dead because of that Nazi guy wasn't it." To which I replied to him with a swift kick in the sack. It seems to be happening to people who listen to metal/hard rock, lately they seem to have all learned the slightest amount of black metal and even though they have no idea what they are talking about, think they know the whole story and meaning behind it.
Ric1312 - I have a few points to make here:
Firstly you're a ******* ****
Secondly, that was done with a knife, not a pin, and bled like hell when I done it, that picture was taken about a month or two after it happenned, when you burst skin open it scabs from the blood, you know that surely? I done it just before xmas '05 and the scar is still very hard to miss, I always get people asking 'whats that mark on your arm'.
Thirdly, hope to be getting the proper 'MayheM' logo tattooed somewhere as soon as I can.
[rant] I'm not just a fan of black metal because its the most extreme form of metal, or because of anyone in the genre. I like it because when I listen to a black metal album, it makes me think, it makes my mind wander, think of things I havent though of before, it makes me feel stronger about everything I have an opinion on. E.G. Listening to Graveworm - Abhorrence just now. Listening to black metal like that just gives me a feeling, that I can't get anywhere else, like it brings me alive. Listening to that song right now just makes me feel like nothing else matters, why should I care. It's like the music takes me to a different place. I am very passionate 'so to speak' about this genre of music, because it is capable of things like this. I would do anything to keep the genre alive and kicking. It is quite literally the only thing I truly care for. All this 'tr00 black metal ftw' crap is very very bugging to me, as for those who do truly care for the music, are in a different league all together. Look at Mayhem for example, they are a band who really care about the genre and wish to keep it alive and keep it what it should be, because of this, real black metal fans will always respect them, for what they have done over the years for the genre itself.
Sit back in a comfy chair, no distractions and listen to 'Meladonium Capta Est - Mayhem' album, and Listen to it from start to finish. Only then will you understand what I mean.[/rant]
This thread delivers!!!
The question, to me, is: "Delivered, yes, but dear Lord what exactly?"I have noticed recently, a lot of people have started calling bands like Arch Enemy and Children Of Bodom, black metal. It disgusts me that they continue to do this, when they have no idea what they are talking about.
I don't have a boyfriend. This nice bassist guy ended it because he didn't want a relationship to interfere with his career or hopes and dreams. I'd normally chalk that up to a "it's not you, it's me but it's really you" but he's a commitaphobe. Not a cheater, just a serial dater. Dates girls, when it comes time for commitment...disappears faster than Britney's hair. I guess I was next in line!
So, it's back to the dating game for me. And where does a 32-year old meet guys? I hate bars. Sooooo, I guess it's all about match.com.
I may not date any more musicians. The one before this one was a guitar player, and there wasn't room for him, me and his ego in the relationship!
We're not sure, but it probably has been "pile-drivingly heavily" delivered as well.The question, to me, is: "Delivered, yes, but dear Lord what exactly?"

Yup it's a daily occurrence huh?
I have noticed recently, a lot of people have started calling bands like Arch Enemy and Children Of Bodom, black metal. It disgusts me that they continue to do this, when they have no idea what they are talking about.
Anyone who knows about the Vark Vikernes/Oystein Aarseth, may have also noticed that a lot of people have taken this story and changed it to whatever they want basically. A person in my school noticed a Mayhem patch on my bag, to which he said.
" Mayhem, that was that band that all ended up dead because of that Nazi guy wasn't it." To which I replied to him with a swift kick in the sack. It seems to be happening to people who listen to metal/hard rock, lately they seem to have all learned the slightest amount of black metal and even though they have no idea what they are talking about, think they know the whole story and meaning behind it.
Ric1312 - I have a few points to make here:
Firstly you're a ******* ****
Secondly, that was done with a knife, not a pin, and bled like hell when I done it, that picture was taken about a month or two after it happenned, when you burst skin open it scabs from the blood, you know that surely? I done it just before xmas '05 and the scar is still very hard to miss, I always get people asking 'whats that mark on your arm'.
Thirdly, hope to be getting the proper 'MayheM' logo tattooed somewhere as soon as I can.
[rant] I'm not just a fan of black metal because its the most extreme form of metal, or because of anyone in the genre. I like it because when I listen to a black metal album, it makes me think, it makes my mind wander, think of things I havent though of before, it makes me feel stronger about everything I have an opinion on. E.G. Listening to Graveworm - Abhorrence just now. Listening to black metal like that just gives me a feeling, that I can't get anywhere else, like it brings me alive. Listening to that song right now just makes me feel like nothing else matters, why should I care. It's like the music takes me to a different place. I am very passionate 'so to speak' about this genre of music, because it is capable of things like this. I would do anything to keep the genre alive and kicking. It is quite literally the only thing I truly care for. All this 'tr00 black metal ftw' crap is very very bugging to me, as for those who do truly care for the music, are in a different league all together. Look at Mayhem for example, they are a band who really care about the genre and wish to keep it alive and keep it what it should be, because of this, real black metal fans will always respect them, for what they have done over the years for the genre itself.
Sit back in a comfy chair, no distractions and listen to 'Meladonium Capta Est - Mayhem' album, and Listen to it from start to finish. Only then will you understand what I mean.[/rant]
[rant] I'm not just a fan of black metal because its the most extreme form of metal, or because of anyone in the genre. I like it because when I listen to a black metal album, it makes me think, it makes my mind wander, think of things I havent though of before, it makes me feel stronger about everything I have an opinion on. E.G. Listening to Graveworm - Abhorrence just now. Listening to black metal like that just gives me a feeling, that I can't get anywhere else, like it brings me alive. Listening to that song right now just makes me feel like nothing else matters, why should I care. It's like the music takes me to a different place. I am very passionate 'so to speak' about this genre of music, because it is capable of things like this. I would do anything to keep the genre alive and kicking. It is quite literally the only thing I truly care for. All this 'tr00 black metal ftw' crap is very very bugging to me, as for those who do truly care for the music, are in a different league all together. Look at Mayhem for example, they are a band who really care about the genre and wish to keep it alive and keep it what it should be, because of this, real black metal fans will always respect them, for what they have done over the years for the genre itself.
Sit back in a comfy chair, no distractions and listen to 'Meladonium Capta Est - Mayhem' album, and Listen to it from start to finish. Only then will you understand what I mean.[/rant]
Mayhem... you're entertaining, if you're not anything.
In the big picture, music is pretty meaningless. It doesn't put a roof over your head, make your stomach full, or keep you warm in the winter. These are the things that are most important. These, and family.
You, just like everyone else, will get over your youthful exhuberance and fascination with a particular music genre. Let's just hope this happens before you decide to prove just how tr00 you are, and it's too late.