Okay, I'm back to take my last lumps for being a jerk (but I'm so good at it.......)
I actually agree totally that the "too much mud and mortar-shaking" approach is way too common.
I've spent a week with the old sound guy hat on with my former employer for the state fair. Six days of 14-hour on my feet days that I'm way out of shape for. And last night, I had to mix a Gospel choir that from the first note, their friends were all over me "turn this up, turn that down", to the point of arguing with each other over it. Had to have security remove them from the AV riser. So I was quite punchy when I came in and read the original post (which I figured would be removed by now over the bashing clause).
Honestly, I've given up. It seems to me that these days, all sound guys are the absolute expert and last word on what a band should sound like and how DARE anyone comment or make suggestions to criticisms, even the people that write their checks and provide their livelihood.
And at the same time, it seems to me that these days, the entire listening audience (players included) are the absolute expert and last word on what constitutes good sound and how DARE any sound guy not take every word of the audience as the Gospel of Good Audio (irregardless of the fact that those words vary insanely, except for the opinion of way overhyped low end these days) and follow their edicts to the letter.
Extremes? Of course. And I rarely see any middle ground.
But hey, what do I know? I was just plugging in my bass....
(Back-handed atonement? Yeah, I'm good at that, too...)