IMO/IME ... a neck should only take about 24hrs to settle. Most of the time ... I'm able to play the bass that day ... and give it a good set-up after a couple ... then tweak after a few more. (I've bought/sold/traded too many basses over the years to really keep up with).
Also .. if the frets show little wear ... and nice crowning ... chances are, a dressing won't do much to correct the buzz (especially if you have a light touch). Frets are built to take years of use/abuse. I've had basses that could really go for a fret-job ... deep flat spots, etc ... and they played fine with no, to little buzz. Perhaps the string height may need to be just a bit higher ... just a mm. can make a huge difference when dealing with a pesky buzz. Being stuck on an exact string height might make you miss out on a great bass. (heck look at Sting's Fender Precision bass ... the neck is totally out of wack ... but he won't adjust the truss rod because he's afraid it'll destroy the neck ... so he just has it set up the best it can be ... and deals with it).
IMO ... a neck adjustment might be the key. Just because the bow is about where you like it ... doesn't mean it doesn't need a bit of attention. I'd slacken the tention on the rod for a day or two ... then bring it back up to where you like it. Throw a fresh (or semi-fresh) set of strings on her ... and give it another set-up. IF that doesn't work ... then bring it to a pro.
As far as, You and the Seller ... I see both sides. You expected the bass to be "playabe" right out of the box (at most with just a basic set-up) ... and the Seller just wants to keep as much $$ in his pockets. However that is tuff to prove. Since you got a good deal on the bass ... him paying half of the set-up/dressing fees is about the best you're gonna get. I don't expect him to pick up the shipping fees back to you (I know I wouldn't) ... basically, you eating the shipping costs is just apart of doing business on-line ... the ol' "let the buyer beware" is always something to keep in mind ... especially if you didn't purchase it through an eBay auction (due to eBays disclosure rules).
All in all ... if you like the bass enough to deal with all this drama ... Keep it .... if not, send it back to the seller and move on.
Also .. if the frets show little wear ... and nice crowning ... chances are, a dressing won't do much to correct the buzz (especially if you have a light touch). Frets are built to take years of use/abuse. I've had basses that could really go for a fret-job ... deep flat spots, etc ... and they played fine with no, to little buzz. Perhaps the string height may need to be just a bit higher ... just a mm. can make a huge difference when dealing with a pesky buzz. Being stuck on an exact string height might make you miss out on a great bass. (heck look at Sting's Fender Precision bass ... the neck is totally out of wack ... but he won't adjust the truss rod because he's afraid it'll destroy the neck ... so he just has it set up the best it can be ... and deals with it).
IMO ... a neck adjustment might be the key. Just because the bow is about where you like it ... doesn't mean it doesn't need a bit of attention. I'd slacken the tention on the rod for a day or two ... then bring it back up to where you like it. Throw a fresh (or semi-fresh) set of strings on her ... and give it another set-up. IF that doesn't work ... then bring it to a pro.
As far as, You and the Seller ... I see both sides. You expected the bass to be "playabe" right out of the box (at most with just a basic set-up) ... and the Seller just wants to keep as much $$ in his pockets. However that is tuff to prove. Since you got a good deal on the bass ... him paying half of the set-up/dressing fees is about the best you're gonna get. I don't expect him to pick up the shipping fees back to you (I know I wouldn't) ... basically, you eating the shipping costs is just apart of doing business on-line ... the ol' "let the buyer beware" is always something to keep in mind ... especially if you didn't purchase it through an eBay auction (due to eBays disclosure rules).
All in all ... if you like the bass enough to deal with all this drama ... Keep it .... if not, send it back to the seller and move on.
