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at what age do you become the "old man"

I'm 58 and have been called sir for many years now. I think it's good and that it shows some respect. I'll say sir or ma'am to my elders because that's the way I was raised.

Being called dude cracks me up. Last time I played at church some high school kids came up to me...."dude, you were awesome today!!" I said thanks but deep inside it took everything I had to keep me from busting out laughing!
 
I'm 58 and have been called sir for many years now. I think it's good and that it shows some respect. I'll say sir or ma'am to my elders because that's the way I was raised.

Being called dude cracks me up. Last time I played at church some high school kids came up to me...."dude, you were awesome today!!" I said thanks but deep inside it took everything I had to keep me from busting out laughing!
This.
I'm 56.
I had a similar experience except it was after a soundcheck and one of the young(29?) guys came up and said "did you play <song name> with a pick?". "No" says I and then showed him two patches developed in my Line 6 that make any bass sound that way if you play it correctly.

The most noticed thing about being called an "old man" is that one does have that "don't give a <expletive>" attitude sometimes......
 

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