I'm not sure if this is the right thread or not, but here goes...
I don't sing in public for a reason. The reason is: I can't cary a tune. I've been known to scare children and small animals with my "singing." My band leader wants me to do some backing vocals, not really singing, (no words, just "oooh") on a CSNY song that we play. Should I agree to do it, or would it be best to refuse so as not to embarrass myself and ruin the song?
I'd try it if I were you, it could work and if it doesn't you can at least say you tried.
I'm kinda like you, and I have contributed some Backing Vocals before but have NEVER enjoyed it. I dont have a good voice anyway, as I have been told a few times, and believe it or not
.Im actually Glad that I dont :-o
..(just having a Microphone in front of me makes me feel a bit "crowded" onstage", no problem with Monitors etc, but Mikes?!.... Nah, not for me

) but I also have another theory which has always been kinda important to me. I love being a Bassist and..... call this a weird thing to say if you like,....having to do Backing Vocals, kinda takes away what being a Bassist means to me.
I love being the Glue that holds the Music together, Musically lying on top of the Drums to make the Foundation Work, and having the extra layers (the Guitars, Keys, Vocals, Harmonies, even Brass-Sections or String Sections) lie on top of me so that they sound better and mix properly with the Drums. I get great joy from that, and as I was told one time without a Bassist, the Music has no Ass.
If I am asked to contribute to the Backing Vocals, then I dont get nearly the same enjoyment out of it. I love hearing the Beautiful Harmonies Im playing with, and I love being the glue to hold it together, like all their Voices become part of my Voice as a Bassist. But if I have to contribute to it Vocally, then it takes away the satisfaction I get out of it, hence what I meant earlier when I said having to do Backing Vocals, kinda takes away what being a Bassist means to me. Even when I tried to stick the the Idea of being a Singing-Bassist, I found I was far less enthusiastic about Music and was just not enjoying even listening to it as much. Bizarre I know, but thats just me I guess.
I feel the same if I go to a Concert and if the Bassist is a Singer then I dont enjoy his or her performance as much. Sometimes it bothers me when I hear People say that Singing adds to your value as a Bassist, cos while I understand what that means, I hate the idea that it kinda makes your Bass Playing somehow, secondary or less-important. I hope all this makes sense, and I know it may sound odd, but as I said, thats just me I guess.
As such Ive usually prefer to see non-singing Bassists in Concert, and there are plenty whom I idolise such as Leland Sklar, Mike Porcaro, John McVie, Neil Murray, Roger Glover, Chris Chaney, Mario Cipollina to name but a few.
As I said in another Post Id rather be a Technically Talented Bassist who doesnt Sing, rather than a Technically Talented Bassist who does. I did get turned down for a Gig once because of the Vocal thing. But it really didnt bother me that much because they did like my Bass Playing, and if THAT had not been up to scratch then that would have really really gotten to me.
But
. Having said all that, if I am asked to do a bit of Back-up then I will grit my Teeth and try it. As I was told once, you should try it if asked, and if its discovered you really cannot Sing, the chances are that by then the gig will already be yours so they will find another way to work around it.
Thats just my thoughts on this Post
