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Bandmate pet peeves

When others set up the mic snake right in front of the bass rig, with a big ugly mess of cables running every which way.

When there is a big blast of feedback through the PA and everyone turns to look at the bass player, despite the fact that his amp is off and his instrument isn't even plugged in yet.

Lateness.

Instruments that are either perpetually out of tune or not intonated.

Drama. Again. Drama.
 
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I never bother with people so disrespectful that they believe everyone else in the world has free time to wait on them.
I never bother with people who are so egotistical that they do not have the patience to wait for someone ;)

Why would you care or let it affect you if a guitar player didn't use straplocks?
Because when you're on stage during a gig (which you booked, traveled for, spent money to arrive at) and the guitarist drops their instrument in the middle of a song, it becomes your problem. Like the other guy, I bought strap locks for my guitarist, yet two years later she still hasn't attached them.
 
Cranking up too loud. In the last cover band I was in the singer had a PA which was abnormally HUGE and he was always the culprit who started the "match my volume" competition.
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Rehearsal volume nazis- I play mostly rock, whether playing bass or guitar I hate the guy who insists on less volume. IMHO, unless your drummer is really good or has an electronic kit, the volume comes up and you kinda have to meet him where he's comfortable. That and guitar amps really do sound better louder. This is why I own small amps in addition to big ones. Buy earplugs and let's focus on playing instead of endless volume management.

Guys (and gals) who get stuck on a bad idea and don't stop bringing it up- in my current band the other guitar player is stuck on the idea of prerecording other guitar parts so that we can sound "thicker" but we don't have the recording capacity or PA support to make those realistic. We have talked it through as a band and democratically ruled it out because of the level of precision and chance of issues if they don't work or venues don't have PA. Still we don't go a practice or hangout session without him bringing it up.

I'd say this stuff doesn't bug me to where I'm upset about it, it's a mild irritation I can keep to myself and express in adult capacity if need be.
 
Not all of these apply to my current bands, but some do.

---People who don't remember parts, especially when you've spent an hour working out vocals to a song, then you get onstage and they start improvising and/or reverting to a part they sang in their old band. Do it once and it's cool but get it right next time. Do it more than once and it's disrespectful and lame.

---Noodlers...and don't ever think guitarists have a corner on it.

---People who think they're too good to take a little direction.

---People who zone out and don't listen when you discuss parts of songs.

---People who bring along significant others who think their opinions matter to us.

Don't worry...I'll think of more.
 
These are all cover band peeves...

Noodling. Anywhere. Anytime.

Guitarists pointing their amp at their knees. Stands are cheap, go buy one. Same goes for bassists.

Anyone that says "I didn't practice it, but let's play it." No, I'm not going to be your backing track. Learn the song on your own time, like I did.

Guitarists using so much chorus their guitar sounds out of tune.

Drummers that have one volume.

Drummers that think every cymbal must be hit in every bar of every song.

Drummers that want to play in odd time signatures. Unless it's a wildly popular song that everyone knows is in an odd time, don't even suggest it.

Drummers that randomly change the kick drum pattern. It's a cover song. It's popular for a reason. One of those reasons is the groove. When you change the kick drum, you're changing the groove.

Lugging a huge PA to a small venue.

Anyone that says they need to "cut through the mix". No, you don't. You need to work with your band mates. If you want to be a solo act, go buy an acoustic guitar and sit under a tree.

Gear snobbery. This is completely useless.

Volume wars. Also useless, and a huge glaring sign that you'll be dealing with large, fragile egos, all night.

Any heavy left hand piano player. If you're gonna play the bass notes, at least play them in time with the drums.

Not listening to the rest of the band. I don't care if you're on stage with 2 people or 200, if everyone went to the bridge except you, you're wrong. You may actually be right, but you're still wrong. :-)

Members not listening to the drummer. If the drummer plays a song a little fast, or slow, during a gig, ya gotta go with it. Don't play tug of war with the drummer. You can discuss it later at rehearsal, but during the gig, play in time with the drummer. They'll be plenty of time to complain about it later.

And now I'm peeved at myself for making such a long, whiny list. :-)
 
Band mates who assume everyone has a smartphone. I don't. But I do have a regular cell phone. You need an urgent reply from me? Give me a call, instead of a FB message.


Until 2013 I did not even own a cell phone. One time I drove to the drummers house for practice only to find no one there. I waited an hour or so before I drove back home, called the drummer and ask what's up. He said "I sent everyone a text that practice was cancelled" I said "Tony, I told you before I can't get texts on my phone. It plugs into the wall and has a big dial on it"

I have a smartphone now because of other incidents like this but God I hate the thing. Such technology is not for everyone.
 
I never bother with people who are so egotistical that they do not have the patience to wait for someone ;)

Your assumption of ego is incorrect. The egotistical person here is the one that believes that everyone should wait on him, and gets indignant when someone dares to think otherwise.

Bear in mind, I'm not talking about occasional tardiness; something that's the exception to the rule and comes with a reasonable excuse. I'm talking about the "I'm-always-late" guy who inexplicably can't get anywhere on time and never has a reason why.....other than he thinks it's ok to make others wait.

It's passive aggressiveness at its best.
 
when the guitarist in our band lays out a rhythmic bass line (what the bass player is supposed to be doing) on his looping pedal and overlays that with 4 guitar lines, and asks the drummer and myself to join in and jam with him in order to come up with a new song.