For all those that don't like my responses, I'd like to mention the notion of offering solid and fair advice which I believe would serve the individual I have offered it to. I have offered it with no malice or ill will. If someone else wants to joke around, so be it. Do that. I'm not stopping you. I never did. But don't even try to bust my chops if (aghast!) I respond productively to the OP in an adult-like manner that gets to a larger, important point, which I think is important to articulate.
Any other grievances with me, please contact me personally, off-list so that what remains of the thread moving forward is on-point and responsive to the topic on hand, and to the individual who started it. Thanks.