Hopkins
Commercial User
Fair point. I think some of us are a bit jaded from all the posts by beginning players who want to sound great NOW or want to sound just like Rocky Awesome of Atomic Madness by getting new gear or pickups or whatever. They'd be better served by learning their instrument first.
That is true, a beginning player should practice to sound better, and his money would be better spent on a full set up instead of pickups.
But I know quite a few accomplished bass and guitar players that really know their instrument, and have never used anything other than a stock pickup. I cant think of a better way of asking which pickup they should use than by describing their style of playing (like the OP), or by what other musicians sound like. The best guitar player I know has a MIM Strat that he just couldn't quite get his preferred sound out of. A little research on his part, and he decided on a set of Klein S5's for a John Mayer type of sound. After I installed those for him he fell in love with the guitar, and his tone did have a noticeable improvement, even though the same fingers were playing.