IMHO, VERY wrongly...mikezimmerman said:Rightly or wrongly, in Turner's shoes I might be a little more inclined to put a project on the back burner if I'd already done it once and wasn't sure that anything I do would really satisfy the customer, or felt that his expectations were unreasonable. All the more reason for you, the customer, to continue to do your best to come across as polite and reasonable!
If I were in that mindset, then I'd return the money and get the person I considered to be un-pleasable off my plate. To me, it makes NO sense to put something off in this case, because all that does is make the PIA worse for BOTH parties. I don't personally see the logic in that approach.
Also, you're right that, once you're at a disadvantage, you need to try and avoid hostile territory, but that's a VERY bitter place to be because you shouldn't have to go out of your way to be kind to someone who is being completely unreasonable. Then again, this is the real world, and in crappy situations like these, it's all about trying to avoid loss... regardless of if it's justified or deserved... or not...
+1!!!!Best of luck in getting this resolved.
Mike