I’m sorry the OP had issues, but as a counterpoint I’ve had several transactions with Tony over the years without any problems.
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Thank you for warning us! It’s not easy running a small business, but he should keep customers informed. He should not have resorted to the vulgar insults.
You did everything correctly and he did not hold up his end.
How many emails had the OP already sent? How many freaking warnings does a business need? He already had the customer's money, it is therefore incumbent upon him to come through and wasn't it more than double the advertised time, while apparently choosing to provide no reason or rationale for the delay? If Paypal already says "You must provide explicit written warning of filing with us before you can do so." then fair enough. If not, it's just a matter of opinion on whether or not enough attempt had been made on the part of the OP, and for me there was.
I took some advice from you guys and I tried to take the high road and offer a solution. I was shot down.
He had been closed due to family emergency until June 8thThis is surprising. I've ordered from him before with no problems. Must be something bad going on in his personal life.
Not looking to make excuses for them, but some people are literally losing their minds these past few months. We can either be understanding or supportive, or kick them harder.
If this were $1000 deal, I might feel differently. We're talking about $10 though and someone who has said they're struggling with something seemingly catastrophic.
Pretty poor attempt to mend fences. Some pointers:Update
I took some advice from you guys and I tried to take the high road and offer a solution. I was shot down.
-7/10/20
Me: Tony,
First of all I do not appreciate your vulgar insult, I would appreciate it if we could keep our communication professional. Second, you are right, I have no idea what you have been through, just as you have no idea what I have been through. So perhaps the best thing to do would be for both of us to remain respectful.
I’m sorry that you got upset at my paypal dispute. I have been scammed from other custom orders in the past and the constant pushing back of deadlines was starting to worry me. I don’t use paypal that often and I was unaware that a dispute is viewed so hostile. It was my intention to protect myself while also giving you a chance to complete the work, in which case I would have been glad to drop the dispute. It was not my intention to upset you.
If you are able to propose and fulfill the order in a reasonable timeframe I would be happy to re-send payment. I feel this would be the most mutually beneficial outcome for both of us: you get paid, I get my pickguards. Please let me know.
Tony: Sorry, I am not interested in doing work for you. Let me know how you want to handle the return of your guard.
For the record, I do not deny that he absolutely has the right to not to do the work. But I gave him a chance to make things right, and he chose not to. Sad.
Family emergency took place. Tony doesn’t own a crystal ball AFAIK.Pandemic or no, it's not OK to advertise a turnaround time and not be able to deliver. From what others have said, it usually takes multiple weeks even in normal times. If it usually takes several weeks, he needs to state that up front before anyone places an order.
Family emergency took place after order received and before Order finished. Tony doesn’t own a crystal ball AFAIK.
Edited my post:Not sure where you got your timeline but whatever happened, it happened a month before my order was placed and according to the update on his website the shop reopened before my pg arrived.
I'll add myself to the many who have had several easy transactions with Tony. Excellent products.
I would not hesitate to order from him again.
-OP, your "apology" was lacking...