Ok, I've scanned through most of the posts, didn't see what I'm going to suggest, so hang on.
As a premise, many here know I've toured professionally, shared stages with bigger names/artists and have found myself in all sorts of crazy situations. When playing country, "acoustic" shows were a big deal. Often a quick stop at an iheart radio station or quick mid day gig before heading to the nights main show was routine. In many occasions, there was little time for sound check or a backline provided system was just plain terrible.
As I sang backup harmonies on most songs, I needed to hear myself sing, but often wasn't given the luxury of a good monitor, ears, or other devices to hear myself properly. I'm not going to even get into gear that malfunctions during a performance.....(Hey we are professionals right? Find a way to work the magic and don't let the audience see you sweat)
A tip I picked up on the road was to carry a set of hearos brand, or another suitable filtering earplugs. Stick these in your pocket and you have a portable vocal monitor with you always.
Can't hear yourself sing? Stick one or two of those in your ears and bam! Instant monitors! Run one and get a great mix of your voice and the ambient sound of stage, or run both and hear yourself as well as any monitoring system built. Seriously, it's that simple and effective. Make sure you have the type that filter and don't close off all the sound, as that will be too much to hear anything else.
Try this before you spend a bunch of money elsewhere. While this won't address the other singers, most of the time I could get enough of a wash from the fronts to know where the lead vocalist was and could hear it well enough to sing my parts.
Here is an acoustic we were playing for a radio station an afternoon before our main show in another city that night. We were somewhere out east, that's all I remember. No amps, monitors, and a little bit of drums. Everything was ran direct. Sound was out the front in a small pa suitable for an acoustic show. Probably 150 in attendance. I was wearing an earplug once I realized they didn't have any stage monitoring and we didn't have time to dig our ears out of the trailer. I heard myself fine.