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Can this Band be Saved / Changed?

The band is getting gigs with no problem. They’ve been doing this for seventeen years. Why change now? You may be able to win the music between sets argument, if *you* agree to assemble the playlist and don’t turn it into your favorite music list. You may even be able to get them to dress a little better for some gigs. The other issues aren’t going to change. Learn to embrace the suck or move on.
 
1 AND 3. Present your issues to the band. If they change any at all, it will be one or two, and not as far as you would like to go with either of them.

But if you're not in an ideal situation, you should ALWAYS be looking for the next band. If nothing else it will allow you some leverage with this one....unless there are bass players lined up to play in a hack 145 band.
 
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First off, I’ve been in this band for 17 years, so these issues aren't new. It's just that at one time I was up as many as five bands, so what any one band was doing didn't really bother me that much, since I had other outlets. That has changed now.

Anyway...we’re a blues based band. We play a lot of fun and cool gigs, like festivals and private events, but we also play bars and clubs. When we play festivals we mostly play the BL’s original songs. When we play bars we play mostly covers. My issue, really, is about what we do on those gigs where we play mostly covers, because we are not being as successful at those gigs (1) as other bands are, and (2) as we could, in my opinion, be.

Problem One: Many of our covers songs, while not “blues” per se, are treated like blues songs. Many are of the I-IV-V format and feature lots of guitar solos. There are two guitarists in the band and both of them love to play solos. And that works when you only do it occasionally. With us, though, songs like “Pink Cadillac” and “Keep your Hands to Yourself” become blues rave ups. I have tried to suggest newer songs that are not I-IV-V and feature actual parts rather than solos and jamming but the BL says that they don’t fit into our format.

Problem Two: The music that our LG plays through the PA when we take a break is always some kind of blues. Now, I like blues, but I get tired of anything after a while. So, between the actual blues that we play, and the cover songs that we play that sound like blues, and the blues that’s played on our breaks, that’s a LOT of blues. Too much blues for a general non-blues bar going crowd, in my opinion.

Problem Three: The LG will not play signature parts on songs. I don’t know if its laziness or not caring or thinking it doesn’t matter. Example, the signature intro lick to “Tennessee Whiskey “ by Chris Stapleton. To me it isn’t a difficult part but should be there and he doesn’t play it. On other songs like “La Grange” he just jams on the solos. No signature licks. Okay, I guess, but getting the feel of the original would be better.

Problem Four: Dress on stage. Last week we played at a private club. The BL was wearing jeans, T-shirt and a camo cap. Drummer wearing jeans, t-shirt, and cap. LG wearing some kind of stretchy loose pants that looked like sweat pants but not exactly. I was slightly more dressy in jeans, nice Henley with undershirt and pork pie hat. I think they all looked like they just showed up to play wearing what they happened to be wearing when they got off the tractor. Now they all dress up more for SOME gigs, although the BL has really gotten slack about dress compared to how he used to dress. I see videos of bands that are playing the same venues that we play who have obviously dressed up for playing. We don’t. Does a band’s look matter?

If it was MY band and it was my decision on how to proceed this is what I would propose:

1. Learn newer and non-blues like songs, including some modern country.

2. Don’t play blues on breaks. Either let the venue play the music they like or play a mixture of classic rock and country, or a mixture of songs that everyone knows.

3. Take the time to learn and play the signature licks of songs. They are just as important as singing the right words, in my opinion.

4. Dress for the gig. A.K.A. dress for success. Most folks who go out to a bar for an evening of drinking, dancing, and listening to music dress up. Why shouldn’t the band?

So, my question is, what should I do. Here are the choices”

1. Take the issues to the band and hope that they will embrace my ideas and be willing to chance a few things to improve the band.

2. Keep my trap shut and learn to accept things the way they are, while gently pushing on the issues in a more subtle way, i.e. keep suggesting new songs of a non blues genre without explaining why.

3. Look for another band that is already doing the things I think should be done.

Thanks for listening and for your thoughts!

To answer your questions:

1) That won’t work, but you can try.

2) If you want to be in that band that plays a beer or barbecue festival where someone listens for thirty seconds and then strolls on, then do this.

3) You know this is the answer you want permission to do. You have our permission. Fire the drummer on your way out.
 
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I’m pretty confident that as the guitarists get older and more mature, they will eventually grow out of their blues noodling. Right?
We're all already mature...VERY mature!:D

You've provided an excellent analysis of your own impressions, but what are external measures of the band's "success" telling you? Obviously, Covid has impacted everything, but are bookings generally increasing or decreasing? Do you think you're losing gigs because of the band's one-pony repertoire? Are your audiences dwindling? Are your "regulars" showing up less often or seeming less engaged or enthusiastic?

I guess what I'm trying to figure out is whether the band's reputation is being affected by the shortcomings you mentioned.........
Yes, it seems to me that our crowds aren't what they used to be and regulars don't show up like they used to.
 
I play in a jazz combo with great guys; one is an excellent musician, one is a hack, one is... learning. The hang is excellent, and even though I only spend any time away from the band with one of the guys they are all my friends. There's no money in it. We play songs I like, but half come across "meh." For the gigs we get, the audience doesn't care. In many cases, they book us simply because we're nice guys. And fairly cheap. :) And jazz isn't ubiquitous around here. We open for regional touring acts, and we play noteworthy (to the locals) festivals and events and the occasional private party. People are happy to see/hear us; I like that part a lot.

But overall, the band is mediocre and won't get any better, which is certainly disappointing and frustrating. But I'm not quitting. What I DO is choose to limit the number of gigs we play (we don't have a BL, really, and don't do subs, so basically we all have gig veto power) so I don't feel regularly beat down by the lack of musicianship. I work on improving my individual performance; I've started soloing in this band, which I haven't had much opportunity to do before. And I cultivate other outlets when I can.

You've received some great advice in this thread... most I agree with, as you would suspect from my situation description above. But 17 years! AND - you received similar advice in June with another post just like this one about this same band, same issues. If it's a rant, I totally get it. I welcome it, and actually love reading them! Sometimes they make me grateful for my own situation. Sometimes I see my situation. And sometimes I wish THOSE were MY [only] problems.

But, dude. This is eating you up. Make a change.
 
Problem One: Many of our covers songs, while not “blues” per se, are treated like blues songs. Many are of the I-IV-V format and feature lots of guitar solos. There are two guitarists in the band and both of them love to play solos. And that works when you only do it occasionally. With us, though, songs like “Pink Cadillac” and “Keep your Hands to Yourself” become blues rave ups. I have tried to suggest newer songs that are not I-IV-V and feature actual parts rather than solos and jamming but the BL says that they don’t fit into our format.

Anytime you have 2 lead guitar players in a band it's almost always like that; a one up the other...usually turns into a volume war as well.
When I used to play guitar and wind up in a band with another lead picker, I'd resign myself to rhythm because I felt it was overkill to have a way extended song just to satisfy a battle-axe competition.
IMO, no matter how good they are audiences aren't there to indulge their insecurities, the band is there to entertain the audience. Too many are in it for the wrong reasons.

Good luck trying to change that because it may not happen. Usually the only way around it is letting one go and hire a "rhythm only" player if necessary.

Were I to try to save it, I would ask them to trade off songs to solo on, but again, you're not dealing with maturity here, no matter their age, or there wouldn't be an issue.

Problem Two: The music that our LG plays through the PA when we take a break is always some kind of blues. Now, I like blues, but I get tired of anything after a while. So, between the actual blues that we play, and the cover songs that we play that sound like blues, and the blues that’s played on our breaks, that’s a LOT of blues. Too much blues for a general non-blues bar going crowd, in my opinion.

If the music the place is going for is say, a blues only motif, then playing blues based songs during break is fine; I would try to vary it away from the specific sound the band puts out.
I know that seems hard with something like blues, but like other genres, it's has a variety of interwoven styles soulful, jazzy, etc. It's just a matter of branching out to find it.

Problem Three: The LG will not play signature parts on songs. I don’t know if its laziness or not caring or thinking it doesn’t matter. Example, the signature intro lick to “Tennessee Whiskey “ by Chris Stapleton. To me it isn’t a difficult part but should be there and he doesn’t play it. On other songs like “La Grange” he just jams on the solos. No signature licks. Okay, I guess, but getting the feel of the original would be better.

It's probably a mixture of lazyness, creativity, and vanity. I think signature parts need to be their. Other parts can be varied quite a bit, but say a song like Tennessee Whiskey, at least that version needs that intro/hook.

Maybe pull up song concert footage of bands playing their songs and show them that while they branch off during solos different from the album, there are still parts in there that make the song recognizable.
At any rate the hooks need to be there and play in the vein of the song.

I played more loose with some songs, except for signature parts...
It's another tough thing to change...don't know if it can be done.

You might point out how wrong the bass part would sound on Tennessee Whiskey
if you didn't play that bass part and just made up something and stuck it in there.

Problem Four: Dress on stage. Last week we played at a private club. The BL was wearing jeans, T-shirt and a camo cap. Drummer wearing jeans, t-shirt, and cap. LG wearing some kind of stretchy loose pants that looked like sweat pants but not exactly. I was slightly more dressy in jeans, nice Henley with undershirt and pork pie hat. I think they all looked like they just showed up to play wearing what they happened to be wearing when they got off the tractor. Now they all dress up more for SOME gigs, although the BL has really gotten slack about dress compared to how he used to dress. I see videos of bands that are playing the same venues that we play who have obviously dressed up for playing. We don’t. Does a band’s look matter?

LOL, I've played with bands that looked like they just climbed off the tractor; caps, camo, etc...
Once guy I played for said we can sound like crap as long as we look good... he was half joking of course, but his point was well taken.

A lot depends of the club your in.
There was a time that a country band, like I usually play in, wore matching, clothes, and I couldn't have worn my cowpunk get up, but it's a looser environment theae days, especially most bars... however If I play a wedding or country club, I dress the part, and I think the band should too.

See if you can get the band to go check these other bands who are doing well and drawing crowds. Ask if there's anything y'all could do to could do to improve; what they think would make your band a better draw.

If it was MY band and it was my decision on how to proceed this is what I would propose:

1. Learn newer and non-blues like songs, including some modern country.

2. Don’t play blues on breaks. Either let the venue play the music they like or play a mixture of classic rock and country, or a mixture of songs that everyone knows.

3. Take the time to learn and play the signature licks of songs. They are just as important as singing the right words, in my opinion.

4. Dress for the gig. A.K.A. dress for success. Most folks who go out to a bar for an evening of drinking, dancing, and listening to music dress up. Why shouldn’t the band?

o, my question is, what should I do. Here are the choices”

1. Take the issues to the band and hope that they will embrace my ideas and be willing to chance a few things to improve the band.

2. Keep my trap shut and learn to accept things the way they are, while gently pushing on the issues in a more subtle way, i.e. keep suggesting new songs of a non blues genre without explaining why.

3. Look for another band that is already doing the things I think should be done.

Sounds like you know pretty well what should be done. Can it be done is the question.
How much say do you have? Is there a band leader? This usually is better recieved by the one in charge and the best anyone else can do it make a suggestion.

After 17 years people are less excepting of change, even if they've changed into what you are trying to change. Some folks just get tired and want to do what they are doing. Anything is possible.

You might just say "Hey guys we're a good band, and I think we can be as good of a draw as those others if we rethink a few things"... what are they doing that we are not?" This opens a discussion to get their ideas.

Good luck with all if this. Bands are a mixture of egos, and one is tough enough to deal with...but a good sales person can bring things around if done with some diplomacy.
No one wants to feel attacked. Put the ball in their court and ask what they think about this and that.

In the end you may either have to accept it or move on. Weigh it if it's worth moving on, or is it worth it to get to play to deal with this

All the beat!
 
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Good luck. The Blues is a very hard sell in bars/clubs.
I dropped out of a band because of that.
The B^&** Blues Band only played a few blues tunes but mostly
old R&B and a bit of Classic rock.
Poor turn out every night. Told the BL drop the Blues in the bands name.
People shun that. Nope. Did not want to. Goodbye.
Year after year, band after band it is extremely hard to get
4-5 musicians to agree to anything.
One of the busiest bands in my area is a trio that plays everything old & new
and they pack their venues.
 
First off, I’ve been in this band for 17 years, so these issues aren't new. It's just that at one time I was up as many as five bands, so what any one band was doing didn't really bother me that much, since I had other outlets. That has changed now.

Anyway...we’re a blues based band. We play a lot of fun and cool gigs, like festivals and private events, but we also play bars and clubs. When we play festivals we mostly play the BL’s original songs. When we play bars we play mostly covers. My issue, really, is about what we do on those gigs where we play mostly covers, because we are not being as successful at those gigs (1) as other bands are, and (2) as we could, in my opinion, be.

Problem One: Many of our covers songs, while not “blues” per se, are treated like blues songs. Many are of the I-IV-V format and feature lots of guitar solos. There are two guitarists in the band and both of them love to play solos. And that works when you only do it occasionally. With us, though, songs like “Pink Cadillac” and “Keep your Hands to Yourself” become blues rave ups. I have tried to suggest newer songs that are not I-IV-V and feature actual parts rather than solos and jamming but the BL says that they don’t fit into our format.

Problem Two: The music that our LG plays through the PA when we take a break is always some kind of blues. Now, I like blues, but I get tired of anything after a while. So, between the actual blues that we play, and the cover songs that we play that sound like blues, and the blues that’s played on our breaks, that’s a LOT of blues. Too much blues for a general non-blues bar going crowd, in my opinion.

Problem Three: The LG will not play signature parts on songs. I don’t know if its laziness or not caring or thinking it doesn’t matter. Example, the signature intro lick to “Tennessee Whiskey “ by Chris Stapleton. To me it isn’t a difficult part but should be there and he doesn’t play it. On other songs like “La Grange” he just jams on the solos. No signature licks. Okay, I guess, but getting the feel of the original would be better.

Problem Four: Dress on stage. Last week we played at a private club. The BL was wearing jeans, T-shirt and a camo cap. Drummer wearing jeans, t-shirt, and cap. LG wearing some kind of stretchy loose pants that looked like sweat pants but not exactly. I was slightly more dressy in jeans, nice Henley with undershirt and pork pie hat. I think they all looked like they just showed up to play wearing what they happened to be wearing when they got off the tractor. Now they all dress up more for SOME gigs, although the BL has really gotten slack about dress compared to how he used to dress. I see videos of bands that are playing the same venues that we play who have obviously dressed up for playing. We don’t. Does a band’s look matter?

If it was MY band and it was my decision on how to proceed this is what I would propose:

1. Learn newer and non-blues like songs, including some modern country.

2. Don’t play blues on breaks. Either let the venue play the music they like or play a mixture of classic rock and country, or a mixture of songs that everyone knows.

3. Take the time to learn and play the signature licks of songs. They are just as important as singing the right words, in my opinion.

4. Dress for the gig. A.K.A. dress for success. Most folks who go out to a bar for an evening of drinking, dancing, and listening to music dress up. Why shouldn’t the band?

So, my question is, what should I do. Here are the choices”

1. Take the issues to the band and hope that they will embrace my ideas and be willing to chance a few things to improve the band.

2. Keep my trap shut and learn to accept things the way they are, while gently pushing on the issues in a more subtle way, i.e. keep suggesting new songs of a non blues genre without explaining why.

3. Look for another band that is already doing the things I think should be done.

Thanks for listening and for your thoughts!
If I was the OP, I’d have been at option 3 some time back, but I’m just a hobby player who places more value on satisfaction with the music than the money or frequency of playing out. My bar experience is extensive but was/is largely limited to gut bucket road houses where the band provides an excuse to ask someone else to dance as a prelude to leaving together, and the obvious goal of increasing alcohol sales. The patrons by and large don’t really pay attention to the band unless we don’t provide opportunities to dance, or they are asking for a particular song. It’s more a live jukebox than a stage show so professionalism takes a back seat to dance music and having fun. When we play festivals and actual stage shows we straighten up and fly right because we usually only have 45 minutes a couple times per day for a weekend to get and hold the attention of a crowd with multiple things vying for their attention so we come correct, get them by the castanets when we take the stage, then keep the intensity level up until the clock runs out.
we are not trying to sell ourselves to bar owners we just enjoy playing and these bar jobs are low pressure situations that help keep us sharp for those occasions when we go for the throat. If professionalism and playing note for note are important, you are wasting your time in bar band these days. IME it’s only certain band members who think a bar band needs to be a show band rather than organic muzak.
 
People who live to wank out endless blues solos and “groove” are in their own little “it’s all about me” world. And they're seldom going to change their ways if my experiences with the breed are anything to go by. They’ve found their own little place and they’re completely happy living in it.

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I have no suggestions for what you should do about it. Sorry I couldn’t be more helpful.
 
Didn't read all the replies, so maybe this has been touched on, but... You never mention if you are friends with the other guys. To me, that plays an important role in the decision making process. 17 years is a good long run and you had to have stayed that long because you get along with them outside the band.

If they are your friends, they should be listening to you; you have a valid voice. But if they say they are your friends yet don't take your input... well, there ya go.

Good luck.
 
I played in a blues band for 10 years. I'm a weekend warrior but have played a lot of gigs over the years and been in multiple groups at the same time and did a lot of subbing. I love playing live music. Knowing I have a gig coming up puts me in a good mood. I loved everything about being in that band except THE MUSIC! (..well and the BL) I love Blues music but really can't stand playing it. We had one of the best harmonica players in the DMV, one of the best drummers too. But the music and the BL just sucked the fun out of it for me. The problem is that as time went on this group became the only group I was gigging with so when I finally quit in 2018 I had no more live gigs to do. Did a few Praise and Worship sub gigs in 2019 but then Covid hit. Nothing.

The point is as much as you are frustrated by this group think how lucky you are to have regular gigs playing music. I would be careful to walk away unless or until you have other outlets available first.
Walking away from something you love doing but frustrates you towards doing nothing may not be any better, just a different kind of frustration.