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Chris Henry died.

Chris Henry died..how was your day?

  • Full of needless bickering with no resolve.

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Oh I wanted to say something, I just knew that the reaction would be like this (my fault for thinking it was unavoidable, I shouldnt have posted to begin with, Ill admit that). If he was any other person, none of you would care and would probably be along the same thought process as me. The guy drove around drunk, gave underage girls alcohol, did drugs, and assaulted people. Seems to me like just another low life criminal, but because he played n the NFL, its all "hero worship this and RIP that." Im not a religious man by any means, so when I hear about people like this passing, all I can think to myself is good riddance.

I think Chris Henry was pretty sad myself. I just make it a point to respect all lives, whether they belong to people I like or not.

As for your opinion of Henry, you are more than welcome to it. I just felt that you needed to say what you thought upfront or you should have said nothing.
 
I think Chris Henry was pretty sad myself. I just make it a point to respect all lives, whether they belong to people I like or not.

As for your opinion of Henry, you are more than welcome to it. I just felt that you needed to say what you thought upfront or you should have said nothing.

Right on, youre correct. I should have said it up front.

I swear Im not trying to be an a-hole, Im just trying to make a point. Of course I feel bad or his family, but its people like him that make this world the terible place that is to live in.
 
Oh I wanted to say something, I just knew that the reaction would be like this (my fault for thinking it was unavoidable, I shouldnt have posted to begin with, Ill admit that). If he was any other person, none of you would care and would probably be along the same thought process as me. The guy drove around drunk, gave underage girls alcohol, did drugs, and assaulted people. Seems to me like just another low life criminal, but because he played n the NFL, its all "hero worship this and RIP that." Im not a religious man by any means, so when I hear about people like this passing, all I can think to myself is good riddance.

You're wrong on so many levels.... I hardly know where to start.

I pretty much care whenever anyone dies, dude. Many times I don't know they've died.... Other times I don't know them. But that doesn't diminish the loss of life. As to the "hero worship" crap, I stopped collecting baseball cards a long time ago. This guy played football for a living. This guy was also a father, a son, etc.... and for you to reduce him to a "low life criminal" says far more about you than it does about him.

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Tell these people that he didn't matter, pal.

Forgiveness isn't a requirement to walk this earth. Neither is compassion. The fact that you possess neither should explain that vague, dead spot in the center of your being.....
 
You're wrong on so many levels.... I hardly know where to start.

I pretty much care whenever anyone dies, dude. Many times I don't know they've died.... Other times I don't know them. But that doesn't diminish the loss of life. As to the "hero worship" crap, I stopped collecting baseball cards a long time ago. This guy played football for a living. This guy was also a father, a son, etc.... and for you to reduce him to a "low life criminal" says far more about you than it does about him.

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Tell these people that he didn't matter, pal.

Forgiveness isn't a requirement to walk this earth. Neither is compassion. The fact that you possess neither should explain that vague, dead spot in the center of your being.....
like I said, Im a cold hearted b****** when it comes to this kind of stuff. I would tell them he didnt matter, right to their faces, but thats because I tell things like they are as I see them. He is and forever will be in my eyes, a criminal. One who got off fairly easily as well for his crimes, probably just because of the fact that he was a NFL star.

And saying I dont have forgivness or compassion, lol. Tell that to all the families of the dead Marines of whose funerals I had to attend in order to pay my respects. Tell that to all the children in Uganda and the Congo where I went to to help build schools and nurseries and soccer fields. Tell that to the countless women I encountered and helped while working at a battered womans home.

Dont ever belittle my moral compass ever again, pal.
 
like I said, Im a cold hearted b****** when it comes to this kind of stuff. I would tell them he didnt matter, right to their faces, but thats because I tell things like they are as I see them. He is and forever will be in my eyes, a criminal. One who got off fairly easily as well for his crimes, probably just because of the fact that he was a NFL star.

And saying I dont have forgivness or compassion, lol. Tell that to all the families of the dead Marines of whose funerals I had to attend in order to pay my respects. Tell that to all the children in Uganda and the Congo where I went to to help build schools and nurseries and soccer fields. Tell that to the countless women I encountered and helped while working at a battered womans home.

Dont ever belittle my moral compass ever again, pal.

So when does your humanity kick in?

By the way, I'm tempted to call BS on a large portion of the previous paragraph. Your posts are not the work of Mother Teresa reincarnated. They are the posts of an angry, bitter man with baggage a-plenty.....
 
I do not feel sad at every loss of human life. I don't buy into the "everyone deserves a second, third, fourth chance" bs either. Maybe he was turning his life around, but that doesn't balance things out. None of my family or friends except one ever needed a third chance ironically enough.

One of our good friends was arrested for beating his wife. None of us spoke to him again, nor attended his funeral after he committed suicide. I was glad that he was dead.

chris henry was not a great person and in my humble opinion, he blew it. Yet another bad decision took his life. Darwinism. Everyone has the right to feel sad and I respect that 100%......all of us also have the right to not care.
 
(pretty ridiculous that I have to post this, but whatever)

These pictures are from a trip that I took on my own expense to Uganda, Africa to work at the DARA and Truth school/orphanage in Lira between July 19th and August 9th of 2008. Some photos are also from Kampala, the capitol of Uganda. Greatest experience of my life

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I STARTED THIS THREAD TO LET SOME PEOPLE KNOW THAT CHRIS HENRY DIED WHO MAY NOT BE AROUND THE NEWS AT THE TIME BUT MAY BE ON TB.

COULD EVERYONE PLEASE STOP BICKERING? ARGUING WITH PEOPLE ON THEIR PERSONAL VIEWS IS USELESS..ASKING THEM TO GET PROOF OF THEIR DEAD FRIENDS IS TACKY AND UNNECESSARY.

PLEASE JUST ADD IF YOU KNOW ANYTHING OR PAY RESPECTS..JUST DONT HAVE A 3 PAGE ARGUMENT ABOUT YOURSELVES. WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS AND BACKGROUNDS..WE GOTTA DEAL WITH IT

that said im not a Bengals fan..im the polar opposite (GO STEELERS) and ive always thought CH was kind of shady but the truth of the matter is its a shame to lose a dude whos always seemed to have a dark cloud over him at 26 years old too something so crazy.
 
IMO, Chris Henry was a thug with a high-paying job- that's it. Maybe he didn't deserve to die, and I feel bad for the people who loved and cared for him, but the all the crap he was into, was anything less expected?

It's too bad that he couldn't have changed his life around and become somebody that's a real role model and makes a difference, but it's too late for that now isn't it? He chose his own path and it killed him.
 
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Because of AIDS and guerilla activity, the national average age in Uganda is 14. The country is filled to the brim with orphans, and non profit schools are must for the continuing education of these children. The particular DARA/Truth school that I worked at was extremely overcrowded and was in dire need of a nursery due to all the infants and toddlers. The building you see being built is that nursery. With the help of 3 friends and a crew of Ugandan men (who only only spoke Swahili I might ad) we were able to accomplish the job with no tools other than make shift ladders, shovels, and wheel burrows. All mortar was mixted by hand and manually applied to the brick.

I currently sponsor 5 children from the school as well. It costs $300 American for one year of school at Truth, and $900 American a year for DARA. Most of the doners however come from an Irish program called Fields of life (www.fieldsoflife.com). Me and my 3 buddies were the first Americans to have ever worked in this area due to its location North of the Nile River. If you want to get an idea of where I was at, watch the movie: Last Kings of Scotland
 
IMO, Chris Henry was a thug with a high-paying job- that's it. Maybe he didn't deserve to die, and I feel bad for the people who loved and cared for him, but the all the crap he was into, was anything less expected?

It's too bad that he couldn't have changed his life around and become somebody that's a real role model and makes a difference, but it's too late for that now isn't it? He chose his own path and it killed him.

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and fo shizzle, hope that was enough proof to give you. Sorry, but I dont have any pictures of dead Marines to share with you.

Chris Henry was a thug criminal. IMO, the world is a better place now.
 
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Because of AIDS and guerilla activity, the national average age in Uganda is 14. The country is filled to the brim with orphans, and non profit schools are must for the continuing education of these children. The particular DARA/Truth school that I worked at was extremely overcrowded and was in dire need of a nursery due to all the infants and toddlers. The building you see being built is that nursery. With the help of 3 friends and a crew of Ugandan men (who only only spoke Swahili I might ad) we were able to accomplish the job with no tools other than make shift ladders, shovels, and wheel burrows. All mortar was mixted by hand and manually applied to the brick.

I currently sponsor 5 children from the school as well. It costs $300 American for one year of school at Truth, and $900 American a year for DARA. Most of the doners however come from an Irish program called Fields of life (www.fieldsoflife.com). Me and my 3 buddies were the first Americans to have ever worked in this area due to its location North of the Nile River.

Great pics.....and some great socially significant work, obviously. It makes the attitude even more confusing. Where is the disconnect? I don't understand. You clearly have compassion for those who struggle to help themselves. Why no compassion for CH? His struggles have been well documented. No one here has tried to minimize them, at all. Where does the zero tolerance policy begin? When you make one mistake? Two? Are felonies your breaking point? Do contributions to worthy causes help balance the scales.

Seriously, I'm more confused than I was before. Actually, it was easier before. I could just file you as an A-hole (just like you have me slotted, I bet). Now, I don't know what to think.
 
So when does your humanity kick in?

By the way, I'm tempted to call BS on a large portion of the previous paragraph. Your posts are not the work of Mother Teresa reincarnated. They are the posts of an angry, bitter man with baggage a-plenty.....
but it would appear that his actions are,and that seems to be more important.....i think his point is that there are lots of folks to feel sorry for who never had a shot at anything and pampered pro athletes seem to garner a lot more sympathy for acting like thugs than whole regions of people who have never even had enough to eat
 
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