I'll repeat the sentiment I posted in the other thread: While I hoped he would turn out alright, I don't necesarily feel all that sorry for him either - He's made a lifetime of bad decisions, and one of them finally caught up to him.
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Oh I wanted to say something, I just knew that the reaction would be like this (my fault for thinking it was unavoidable, I shouldnt have posted to begin with, Ill admit that). If he was any other person, none of you would care and would probably be along the same thought process as me. The guy drove around drunk, gave underage girls alcohol, did drugs, and assaulted people. Seems to me like just another low life criminal, but because he played n the NFL, its all "hero worship this and RIP that." Im not a religious man by any means, so when I hear about people like this passing, all I can think to myself is good riddance.
I think Chris Henry was pretty sad myself. I just make it a point to respect all lives, whether they belong to people I like or not.
As for your opinion of Henry, you are more than welcome to it. I just felt that you needed to say what you thought upfront or you should have said nothing.
Oh I wanted to say something, I just knew that the reaction would be like this (my fault for thinking it was unavoidable, I shouldnt have posted to begin with, Ill admit that). If he was any other person, none of you would care and would probably be along the same thought process as me. The guy drove around drunk, gave underage girls alcohol, did drugs, and assaulted people. Seems to me like just another low life criminal, but because he played n the NFL, its all "hero worship this and RIP that." Im not a religious man by any means, so when I hear about people like this passing, all I can think to myself is good riddance.
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like I said, Im a cold hearted b****** when it comes to this kind of stuff. I would tell them he didnt matter, right to their faces, but thats because I tell things like they are as I see them. He is and forever will be in my eyes, a criminal. One who got off fairly easily as well for his crimes, probably just because of the fact that he was a NFL star.You're wrong on so many levels.... I hardly know where to start.
I pretty much care whenever anyone dies, dude. Many times I don't know they've died.... Other times I don't know them. But that doesn't diminish the loss of life. As to the "hero worship" crap, I stopped collecting baseball cards a long time ago. This guy played football for a living. This guy was also a father, a son, etc.... and for you to reduce him to a "low life criminal" says far more about you than it does about him.
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Tell these people that he didn't matter, pal.
Forgiveness isn't a requirement to walk this earth. Neither is compassion. The fact that you possess neither should explain that vague, dead spot in the center of your being.....
Nothing to belittle, there is none. Throwing your own pain at someone elses doesnt give you a free pass
like I said, Im a cold hearted b****** when it comes to this kind of stuff. I would tell them he didnt matter, right to their faces, but thats because I tell things like they are as I see them. He is and forever will be in my eyes, a criminal. One who got off fairly easily as well for his crimes, probably just because of the fact that he was a NFL star.
And saying I dont have forgivness or compassion, lol. Tell that to all the families of the dead Marines of whose funerals I had to attend in order to pay my respects. Tell that to all the children in Uganda and the Congo where I went to to help build schools and nurseries and soccer fields. Tell that to the countless women I encountered and helped while working at a battered womans home.
Dont ever belittle my moral compass ever again, pal.
So when does your humanity kick in?
By the way, I'm tempted to call BS on a large portion of the previous paragraph. Your posts are not the work of Mother Teresa reincarnated. They are the posts of an angry, bitter man with baggage a-plenty.....
IMO, Chris Henry was a thug with a high-paying job- that's it. Maybe he didn't deserve to die, and I feel bad for the people who loved and cared for him, but the all the crap he was into, was anything less expected?
It's too bad that he couldn't have changed his life around and become somebody that's a real role model and makes a difference, but it's too late for that now isn't it? He chose his own path and it killed him.
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Because of AIDS and guerilla activity, the national average age in Uganda is 14. The country is filled to the brim with orphans, and non profit schools are must for the continuing education of these children. The particular DARA/Truth school that I worked at was extremely overcrowded and was in dire need of a nursery due to all the infants and toddlers. The building you see being built is that nursery. With the help of 3 friends and a crew of Ugandan men (who only only spoke Swahili I might ad) we were able to accomplish the job with no tools other than make shift ladders, shovels, and wheel burrows. All mortar was mixted by hand and manually applied to the brick.
I currently sponsor 5 children from the school as well. It costs $300 American for one year of school at Truth, and $900 American a year for DARA. Most of the doners however come from an Irish program called Fields of life (www.fieldsoflife.com). Me and my 3 buddies were the first Americans to have ever worked in this area due to its location North of the Nile River.
but it would appear that his actions are,and that seems to be more important.....i think his point is that there are lots of folks to feel sorry for who never had a shot at anything and pampered pro athletes seem to garner a lot more sympathy for acting like thugs than whole regions of people who have never even had enough to eatSo when does your humanity kick in?
By the way, I'm tempted to call BS on a large portion of the previous paragraph. Your posts are not the work of Mother Teresa reincarnated. They are the posts of an angry, bitter man with baggage a-plenty.....