What are your experiences? Is investing in a “silent” setup worth the effort, or are you ride-or-die about your amps? What tips or advice, gear or issues have you had transitioning? What would you have liked to have been told beforehand?
My wife and I formed a new band about 3 years ago (her on digital piano & vocals, me on bass & vocals) and we decided to go completely "silent stage"/IEMs. We absolutely love it. She and I invested in really good custom fitted IEMs (UE11's) and I cobbled together a monitor system primarily comprised of Behringer equipment, including P16-M personal monitor mixers. We're both completely sold on this approach. In nearly 50 years of performing music, neither of us have ever been able to hear everything so well (other than in recording studios) as we do now.
As we added additional musicians (acoustic guitarist, electric guitarist, drums/percussion) we met some resistance, but in each case once they gave it a chance (and got some decent earbuds) they were sold. The electric guitarist had to put away his beloved Fender Twin Reverb and get a Kemper and the drummer switched to e-drums, but once they'd gotten through the adjustment period they were very happy. We're all older musicians, so protecting what remains of our hearing is very important to us. In looking for musicians, there are some however who are not at all willing to try IEMs/"silent stage". This can make it challenging to find suitable musicians--particularly drummers. On the other hand, our experience has been that the drummers and electric guitarists who embrace going "silent stage" and digital discover a whole world of sonic creativity.
Gig-wise, it has made things much easier since we're not fighting to find a balance between the sound coming off of the stage vs the FOH system. We consistently get complimented by venues on how great we sound. I designed our system so that all instruments and mics first plug into an XLR splitter, then each instrument and mic splits off to our monitor system and to the FOH. This means regardless of whether we're using our own FOH or a venue-provided system, our monitors are exactly the same, and so the monitor mix that we each hear (and the volume we hear it at) doesn't change. And each musician controls their own personal monitor mix, which is essential. That means, for us, playing a gig sounds just like it did at rehearsal. If a venue is providing a house system with a house soundman and onstage wedges, we just connect the FOH side of our XLR splitter to the house snake and tell the soundguy to just turn his monitors completely off. But we mostly play small venues where we provide our own FOH. We don't have our own sound person, so I run it. That means I typically stand out front during soundcheck to make sure the FOH mix is good, and I periodically pop an IEM out of one ear during the gig just to make sure everything seems OK in FOH (to the extent I can tell from the stage). It would be a better, of course, if we had a sound person. Sometimes, if the gig warrants it, we hire someone for the show, but most of our gigs don't justify that expense and I can hear the FOH good enough from the stage to manage it.
As a bassist, I used to tour with an SVT back in the day, but I don't tour anymore and I'm too old to be lugging a refrigerator around, and it would be overkill for the venues where we play. But now that we're IEM/"silent stage" I use an Ampeg SGT-DI and can get that lovely SVT sound.
