I'm just a amateur level musician/sound engineer, by choice, but I agree with the OP. It's hard to find good mixes out there. Most times, the subs are over baring. Clarity should come first with vocals being prominent. The rest of the instruments are there for support. Indoors, around the area I live in, most bands are mixed way to loud for the venue and then the subs are way to hot. For some reason it's become supposedly kick &$$ to have that thumping sub output. Nope not me, no thank you, I'll take clarity. If you can't have a conversation with someone standing a foot away without yelling at them, then it's to loud. The kiss technique has a lot of benefits. Technology has nothing to do with it imo. I've heard awesome mixes back in the 80's and awesome mixes recently. The only thing technology has done is make it possible to have awesome mixes easier in the right hands, but it's also made terrible mixes easier in the wrong hands