Yes, I assumed you were implying as much but I don't like to assume...look what you just made me do!
I do believe that the general laziness (it is very interesting to ask specifics about things that people rant on..a lot of them get quiet
really quick!) does partly stem from the identity issue I mentioned. A lot of people are very comfortable with the persona they maintain and see things outside of it as threatening in some way. There are also a lot of lazy people who couldn't be bothered to open up a dialectic (I'm totally with you there!)
I'm going to use a physical example of how people use identity...
I am going out to a dance club...my attire - nice pants, button down shirt, nice shoes, etc...
I am going to a rock club...my attire - Everytime I Die T shirt, whatever pants, whatever sneakers/boots
I am going to work...my attire - none

j/k
I do this for numerous reasons, but mostly because I want to go out and be a
part of the experience...I do not want to be the experience. I'm not trying to impose my will on the surroundings...I'm happy to let the surroundings dictate my identity and in doing so I can learn and experience so much more: because I
look like I fit in people will be more open in their interactions with me for better or for worse (always better eventually). I want to know what people say behind closed doors and
understand why...this is how we learn who we are and understand our own self. As they used to say...
Walk a day in another one's shoes...
I love shoes.
***BTW, I'm not directing all this at you Sixgunn, I've been reading the whole thread and am going with the conversation a bit***