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That sounds interesting...how does one acquire such friends?
Friends of friends mostly. Sometimes friends of friends of friends. I send a message, try to seem not like a psycho yet be myself, and usually I get a positive response.
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That
That sounds interesting...how does one acquire such friends?
C3, how did the acoustic gig go?
I looked up a few people I knew from high school. Found my first love (not looking so good to me now), then realized that if I really wanted to stay in touch with these people I would have.
Speaking of FB...Many of you are already FB friends of me. But if you are an FBer and want to find me there, here is a link.And mine: https://www.facebook.com/JaamE
And my band: https://www.facebook.com/SupahSweetBand
And then i'll be horribly confused learning who you all are by your "real-life" names
Keep in mind we play mostly just for fun![]()
not a facebook person for the reason previously stated, but if you want some real-life stuff here is my regular band's website, and you can listen to some samples and look at some pics there:
http://vagueassurances.com/
Chuck, you've got some mad bass skills yourself.![]()
And every girl loves a guy who can handle a DB.![]()

I find that female friendships are notoriously challenging and complicated. Tat and FM from this thread have become two of my closest female friends. Honestly, if I had a problem, I wouldn't hesitate to call either one of them - I would definitely turn to one of them quicker than I would a lot of my other female "friends" who live closer. Truth is, I have very little in common with most of the soccer moms I find myself surrounded by.
In general, I think it's harder to make friends as an adult, especially for those of us that tend to be a little introverted or eccentic.
But rest assured, you are among friends here.![]()
Now all I need is someone other than a snoring grizzly or a squirmy kid (she often finds her way in at night) to snuggle and doze out with, LOL.
It's no wonder I wake up in the middle of the night a lot...
Nov 10 has been the Marine Corps' birthday for the last 237 years..
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Marine_Corps_birthday_ball
I dunno if there will be any extra hoopla..if there wasn't before, I doubt that there will be now.
A wise man once said, "70 ain't old, iffen she's wearing something TIGHT."
I looked up a few people I knew from high school. Found my first love (not looking so good to me now), then realized that if I really wanted to stay in touch with these people I would have.
My Angry Birds Combo is so named because an Army friend of mine bought it for me for my birthday while he was deployed. His unit handle is Angry Birds.
He knew I needed it and didn't have the money saved up yet and when he saw this one on MF as "damaged in shipment" for 1/3 the price he decided i needed to be spoiled. The Angry Bird dogtag covers the crack in the grill and was put there the first time the amp played out because he could not be there to see us play.
The skanky pics with it are available via PM![]()

We think that you are "just right" JammE.
I'm just weird. I'm more reserved on the internet. Tat and FM met me in person and I'm sure that they will agree that I'm much crazier in person.
I am looking at stripper poles for the Bass-ment folks!
I had a two-fer this afternoon!
(Get your minds out of the gutter.)
I stopped in a potential venue and ended up getting both bands booked.
Speaking of FB...
Many of you are already FB friends of me.
But if you are an FBer and want to find me there, here is a link.
https://www.facebook.com/#!/michael.lowe.5359
Here is the page for the Green Ridge Runners
https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Green-Ridge-Runners/255586317795253?ref=hl
And finally, Feral.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Feral/135790813196225?ref=hl
FM: I'll just say it... You're the greatest!!
I knew I wouldn't be able to finish that post wo giving you tons of material to work with
I may have to send you all my other basses so you can douse them with mojo and send them back!

You don't need that 4 string anymore...it doesn't match any of your other basses. Here is a link to my FB page: http://www.facebook.com/?sk=welcome#!/greg.harman1
There are many old photos there for the curious. I have no FB friends, nor do I want any. Many of you are my friends though I do not consider you "virtual" friends; more like "real" friends. What an innovative notion, huh? I have always counted my friends pretty much on one hand and considered myself lucky if I count on the high end; but that's just me...you know, the curmudgeon with a conundrum. And while I am at it, get the hell off my lawn!
Only got my own page when I clicked it...I'll look you up there for sure though. No friends though, right?
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etoncrow said:Nope, no virtual friends. Like yourself, my friends know who they are. Never saw the need to advertize them or boast about them. Never needed a list cause they always seemed to be there when I needed them and I for them.
Two of my best friends in this life committed suicide which lead to my rule No. 1. "Always play the cards you are dealt, cause the alternative sucks." . . .
Two of my best friends in this life committed suicide which lead to my rule No. 1. "Always play the cards you are dealt cause the alternative sucks." You see, you are dealt those cards for a reason. You either earned them or you need to learn that lesson. Off yourself and the next time through you are still going to have to play those same cards plus the BS cards you just dealt yourself for committing suicide. Just my thoughts on the subject.
this goes back 15 or so CWBs, but talk about a biological reaction ... well, I had one to this pic.
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not sure where I was going with that thought process ... or even that there was a thought process.
p.s. this is the first image that comes up if you google-image "furry monkey talkbass."
I find that female friendships are notoriously challenging and complicated. Tat and FM from this thread have become two of my closest female friends. Honestly, if I had a problem, I wouldn't hesitate to call either one of them - I would definitely turn to one of them quicker than I would a lot of my other female "friends" who live closer. Truth is, I have very little in common with most of the soccer moms I find myself surrounded by.
In general, I think it's harder to make friends as an adult, especially for those of us that tend to be a little introverted or eccentic.
But rest assured, you are among friends here.![]()
Thanks for the soundtrack to my CWB reading.As always, good choices. And not that I minded listening to it twice, but you repeated that last Jefferson Airplane link.
Now all I need is someone other than a snoring grizzly or a squirmy kid (she often finds her way in at night) to snuggle and doze out with, LOL.
It's no wonder I wake up in the middle of the night a lot...
Mr Thor,
I am a Jeff Beck aholic. I saw him with two older siblings when I was SIX years old. It was a Yardbirds show and I thought that the guitartist was unbelievable. (He was and is...) I've followed his career all the way up to the present.
Mick Waller... sigh. I listened to Mr Waller's playing so much as I was learning drums, my guitarist brother used to introduce me in the band as Mick Waller. His chugga-chugga version of a shuffle is a little different than anyone else's and I adopted it as my own. When he did a roll he would start out slow and half way around the kit kick it into hyper-drive. Or it would start out slow and rambling and finish at warp speed. My brother once said that his rolls sounded like you kicked his drumset down a staircase and the kit lands at the bottom on one. When I started playing all of those years ago I never intended on copying Mick Waller, it just happened. If you like his playing, you'd get a kick out of my drumming.
Here is a link to my FB page: http://www.facebook.com/?sk=welcome#!/greg.harman1
There are many old photos there for the curious. I have no FB friends, nor do I want any. Many of you are my friends though I do not consider you "virtual" friends; more like "real" friends. What an innovative notion, huh? I have always counted my friends pretty much on one hand and considered myself lucky if I count on the high end; but that's just me...you know, the curmudgeon with a conundrum. And while I am at it, get the hell off my lawn!
Nope, no virtual friends. Like yourself, my friends know who they are. Never saw the need to advertize them or boast about them. Never needed a list cause they always seemed to be there when I needed them and I for them.
edit: Two of my best friends in this life committed suicide which lead to my rule No. 1. "Always play the cards you are dealt cause the alternative sucks." You see, you are dealt those cards for a reason. You either earned them or you need to learn that lesson. Off yourself and the next time through you are still going to have to play those same cards plus the BS cards you just dealt yourself for committing suicide. Just my thoughts on the subject.