I was a FB holdout myself for a long time (up until this past spring), mostly because I could care less what my friends were eating for dinner or what they bought today at Target. I finally caved to the pressure because my hubz knew more about my friends and family than I did simply because he was on FB. He remembered their birthdays more often than I did, knew about events in their lives before I did and shared funny comments they had made. I finally just felt like I was missing out on too much.
Yes, you have to wade through the inane, dramatic, boring, and incendiary - but I find it to be worth it in the end. Great way to share pics and info. with people far away. Lots of great humor there to make you smile, especially if you "friend" Tat and FM! Plus you can "ignore" people who are driving you crazy (say, with never-ending political rants) so you don't even see their posts.
Musically, it really helps me stay connected as well. My current band saw me at a Sonic Cherry gig a long time ago. When they were looking for a bass player,they asked around about my name, and found me through facebook. If it weren't for FB, they probably never would have been able to contact me. I have been using it a lot to comminicate with singers also during the search and audition process my band is currently undergoing.
It's a tool - like anything, all in how you use it.
Come and find me on FB - do a search for Charity Detrick in Ohio. And welcome to the dark side.![]()
I have to agree with you about not wanting to know what everyone else is doing every day...occasionally dinner pics are cool, because I like to cook, and I want recipes.
I looked up a few people I knew from high school. Found my first love (not looking so good to me now), then realized that if I really wanted to stay in touch with these people I would have.

