If you don't get paid, you're not a musician; you're a hobbyist. There's no shame in that, really. Playing out of love (and not love + money) is not a bad thing, and saying that you make money from playing doesn't mean that you love music any less.
It really irks me when people say, "I do it out of love for the music," as though the guys who are getting paid DON'T love it, just because they are getting paid, too. Most every musician loves music; if they didn't, why would they bother? Music is one of the hardest ways to make money out there. The hours are bizarre, there is almost zero stability in the marketplace, almost never health insurance coverage, lots of time away from home, pressure to perform night after night, even when you are sick or injured, and you're subject to a lot of public scrutiny regarding your looks, style, etc, in addition to your ability. And the money is not even that great on top of it, even for almost all pros. If they weren't doing it out of love, they'd probably do something else.
We all love music here. Getting paid is what separates musicians from people who do it ONLY out of love, just like people who like to go out and play pool but don't win tournaments, people who like to fish but don't sell the fish for a profit, people who like to cook but do it at home for no money (and paying out of pocket for the ingredients and equipment... sound familiar?)