We have a drummer, who a couple times has complained about the tempo of a song we do sort of likeL "Hey, the other night when we did that song, it was too fast. We need to pay attention to the tempo or the groove is lost. I'm starting the song at the right tempo, but you guys are speeding up." ***??? Now, I understand as bass player that I can push a little to get on top of the beat or put a different feel to it, but isn't the drummer ultimately responsible for the tempo and can't any good drummer pull it back in if he feels the band is pushing him to a faster tempo?