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Sometimes it is, though.It’s always someone else fault isn’t it. One of the largest problems in this country is lack of self responsibility.
Always someone else fault. Always.
You do realize these are two FICTIONAL TEEVEE SITCOMS, right?When the first season of The Simpsons aired in 1989,
Homer was considered a loser. Same with Al Bundy from Married with Children, which started in 1987.
Both of these guys were able to support a family with stay at home Mom, two cars and a house, even though they worked a job they hated and were not particularly good at.
You do realize these are two FICTIONAL TEEVEE SITCOMS, right?
TeeVee shows are not demographic data.
What's amazing is that you think that all of that is still actually possible, regularly, month to month, for the majority of the (non-corporate?) working world. Not sure if you've seen wage vs rent/housing data lately, but it's almost impossible for low-to-middle wage earners to afford rent, much less health care, to say nothing about saving for retirement. Companies would rather hire part time/gig workers so they don't have to pay them benefits, while giving raises that in no way come close to compensating for cost of living and inflation. 'Living on less than you make' assumes that the rest of your expenses (housing, etc) are available in a form/market in your area that allows you to live below your means. Your observations, while well intentioned, are largely out of touch with reality for the majority of the average working world. Unfortunately, the affordable housing is outside of the areas which allow one to 'jump jobs every 2-5 years'. Lots of nuance is missed with this observation set.
I will add that while it’s important to understand the overall landscape that Americans are working with when it comes to financial opportunities and challenges, it’s arguably more important, as individuals, to ask, “what am I going to do about it?” Knowing might be half the battle, but taking action and accountability for results is critical. There are a lot of echo chambers folks can fall into that exasperate misery and inability to find success in today’s world, and yet there are folks who are finding success. What’s the source of this difference? My childhood friend will tell you he was genuine “trailer trash” as a child and now he works as a medical physicist making ungodly amounts of money each year.
Back to my previous post… it is way more challenging than it once was, but it is possible. It does take a lot of hard work, good decision making, and a little luck, but it can be done. The best news is that the tools and resources needed to learn how to do this can be found for free online or at a library. I’m sure you’re say not everyone has access to a library or the internet. Fair enough - my advice isn’t for them. But I’d argue most folks in this thread do, and if they’re struggling there is reason to keep fighting and to utilize what resources are available to educate yourself and work towards a better future.
TL;DR - You’re correct that there a many challenges in today’s world. My question to you is what’s the solution? Do we accept it without action or do we take personal accountability and work towards a better future for ourselves?
I do think though some tv shows/adult cartoons can base some reality with everyday people. Don't get me wrong many are awful and inaccurate and I also partly blame that for our problems today - people take media too literal I don't wanna even get into that. Friends I never been into and I think that show has hype the idea of city living... meanwhile look at prices at a Manhattan apartmentYou do realize these are two FICTIONAL TEEVEE SITCOMS, right?
TeeVee shows are not demographic data.
I retired from Nuke Pwr, and pretty comfortably.The Homer Simpson situation is still relevant today. NPP workers are reasonably well paid.
The Al Bundy situation wasn't realistic, even in the 80's. Unless he owned the store.
Exactly. I've spent nearly 30 years in the software industry and I've somehow managed to survive multiple bloodlettings that sent the bulk of our software development overseas to cut labor costs in the name of quarterly profits.Not only have the bulk of skilled labor positions been automated away, the exact same thing is happening now with white collar positions. And it’s really just getting started.
We talk about late stage capitalism, but that fatcat Mr. Slate exploited the hell Fred Flintstone.The Homer Simpson situation is still relevant today. NPP workers are reasonably well paid.
The Al Bundy situation wasn't realistic, even in the 80's. Unless he owned the store.
The funny thing about the 50s/60s TV shows (cartoons included) is that they were either wildly idealistic and whitewashed the reality of the 'nuclear family' and the 'average family', or they lampooned it in a way that flew over peoples' heads - like Mr. Slate treating Fred like dirt, which was closer to reality in all likelihood.We talk about late stage capitalism, but that fatcat Mr. Slate exploited the hell Fred Flintstone.