I looked at all the places/times I smoked (in the car, at home, band practice, after lunch, when I drank, etc) and one by one, I cut them out. It took about 6 months but one day I realized I wasn't addicted anymore. So then I just stopped.
I'll echo this. I smoked at least a pack a day from around 18 years old until I was 41 year old. Some days I smoked two. A carton of ten never lasted a week. I smoked at work, at home, in the car, from the car to inside a business, and like a freight train during a gig. I had tried to quit maybe twice in all that time and always started right back. And that's just the cigs. I smoked "other stuff" too. About ten years ago, when I was 41, I got really sick. I was already diabetic and ended up with pneumonia and extremely high blood sugar and blood pressure and spent a few days in ICU. I said I was going to quit then, and told my wife to throw away any I had at the house. When she picked me up at the hospital door, I dug a half smoked butt out of the ashtray and lit it. I was a fiend. I lasted about two days. After I came out I found out my kidneys were failing too. One day the doctor told me I was probably looking at dialysis in about a year if I didnt do something to stem the rate that my kidneys were shutting down. I asked what I could do and he said the first thing was to stop smoking. When I got back to my car, I had a pack with about a half dozen in it and a full pack. That was Tuesday and I ran out on Friday the morning. That was probably the longest a pack had lasted since I had started. I havent had one since. Feb. 13th 2019 made ten years since I've smoked.
I quit cold turkey. A friend told me once that you had to have the "
want to" to be successful. You can want to stop, but you have to
want to in order to really stop. I had a really good reason. I didnt want to start dialysis. i probably put it off by maybe a year by stopping smoking. I guess I had been quitting over a long time period like @48thStreetCustom said, because that's how I really ended up doing it. Before my illness, I had already cut out smoking at work, because I was the only person at work who smoked. Then I stopped the first one in the morning, you know, the one where you spark it up as soon as you roll out of bed. I would just get up and go straight for the shower. After a while, if I wasnt going anywhere straight from work, I would not even take the pack with me. Just a couple of loose ones. I look at it like this... I had stopped smoking at work, at certain times at the house, and in certain situations. I just then had to cut out the rest of the times. I didnt use any stop smoking aids like gum, patches or drugs. I've really not known anyone who has quit with Chantix. Im sure some have though, just no one I know. Those vape things may work, but I've heard they have health hazards of their own.
One important thing to do: find something to replace the energy you put into smoking. I started working out for the first time in my life to kill the time I would usually be smoking. That really helped. Maybe play your bass more or find a hobby. Something to expend your energy on and not think about the fact you dont have a smoke in your hands.
I still love the smell of a cigarette, and told my wife the other day "I'd love a cigarette right now!" My dad quit in 1985 and still wants one. I'm just pretty proud of having done something for ten years, and I dont want to mess that up now.
Finally, look at it financially. At one pack a day, for ten years, at $3.50 a pack (what I paid for the brand I smoked when I quit), I've saved myself $12,775.
At what they cost now, I've saved myself $18,250!
Sorry, didnt mean to ramble. This is just kind of a thing with me now. I hope you quit. You can!
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