I've been in bands where I've done the most, and bands where others did. We always split evenly. Having said that, If a member was doing more than the rest, I'd be OK with them getting a bigger share. I'd suggest saying something like:
"Hey guys I've been doing a, b, and c for years, and am kind of tired of it. Let's talk. I have 3 options, maybe there are more? Mine are:
1. Someone else takes over my duties.
2. We hire someone to do them.
3, I get compensated for the extra work.
What do y'all think?"
"Hey guys I've been doing a, b, and c for years, and am kind of tired of it. Let's talk. I have 3 options, maybe there are more? Mine are:
1. Someone else takes over my duties.
2. We hire someone to do them.
3, I get compensated for the extra work.
What do y'all think?"