A very merry un-birthday.
Totally in agreement on the soundman-and old school-things. None of the places we play have house PA's-or people to run them. All sound is adjusted by us. Most places we play don't have room for monitors. At the place we played last Saturday, the dancers bump into the mics(flat floor, no stage). Also they have us set up in the SE corner of the room and the people at the bar in the NW corner of the room complain they can't hear our 'on break' music. But if I turn it up so they can hear, the people in front of us say it's too loud.
Our usual PA setup-voices only-is 2 Daisy chained BOSE L-1's, which we can hear ourselves off the sides of and at our volume, it's enuff. We're not acoustic, but we're also not LOUD.(60s-70s rock and country)
Most of our(too few)gigs, we get there ~1 hour before start time, set up, tune and go for it. I try to use my longest(20')cable and get out front to hear any EQ tweaks that need to be addressed. Which is kinda uncool with people sitting there eating and chatting and looking at you like you have 3 heads. I always have the Rumble on a stand* of some kind, angled up toward my ears. Partly because my knees don't work all that well as knees, but aren't worth a hoot as ears.
Referencing pay, or lack of, we're a quartet-normally. The place we're playing Friday and Saturday(10/15+16) doesn't pay enuff so we're going in as a trio each night. I'm off tonight. One of the guitarists, w/ his PA, also plays bass so he's on tonight, I'm on tomorrow night. And I 'get' to take my PA(JBL EON ONE)tomorrow. I run a mixer to put 3-4 mics into the EON.
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