Hi Mudslide!
I hear ya, brother! I'm 61, live in upstate NY, and hadn't been in a band for over 20 years. Divorce, young child, etc. I wanted to get back into playing a bit, but didn't want to gig more than once a month. I love playing, but love doing other things too, and it seems that when I do a late night bar job, I'm wiped for the next day. Man, is it hard to find guys who only want to play out that little. I was very, very lucky. Hooked up with a couple guys from a band I was in during the 80's, and a young guitar player who is into the old classics that we do. It finally works, the other guys have other projects that keep them busy, and we are a fun classic rock band, doing the stuff we grew up on....."Green Eyed Lady", Incense & Peppermints", Never Been Any Reason", lots of Grand Funk, James Gang, Beatles. We are doing it for fun, not money. The money isn't there anymore anyway.
But it is hard finding a group of guys as you get older!
Here's a vid of us at a local bar....
That's a great clip! Give my regards to upstate. I lived in the town of Catskill for a couple of years recently.
I am glad you got things off the ground again. To me, there has never been any other feeling in my life to compare with playing live.
I actually have a friend here in town I used to play with about 20-25 years ago in a few bands, great all-around musician, but he's the best drummer I've ever worked with. When we were the rhythm section, we were The Engine Room, baby!
He wants to work on some stuff, but I have to wait to get my Rumble 150 out of layaway. Neither of us has a bass amp that would work to play at the moment.
He still gigs and records regularly. My main issue is that it is highly likely I will be moving AGAIN in the near future. My wife has some serious health issues and can't work. I have a good job but the pay isn't livable. So I'm seeking a higher paying job.
Sheesh...I'm sorry to dump my life story on here, but stories like yours give me hope. I'd love to see you guys--you are covering some of my favorite stuff!
I envision having a mostly instrumental band playing old surf numbers and stuff like Link Wray, Duane Eddy, The Ventures, etc., or maybe more of an early rock and roll/rockabilly thing, or having a sort of 80s tribute band and playing stuff like Cheap Trick, The Cars, Blondie, Elvis Costello and the like.
But I'd really be up for just about anything! I'm not too fond of
modern Nashville country music, and I don't care much for gangster rap or the kind of heavy metal with those gutteral "Cookie Monster" vocals, but I could get behind almost anything else.
Your story is inspirational. Thanks!