Tone wars
Which tone cause the most trouble in these wars? Instrument tone, or message tone?
Seems to me that it is the perceived tone of the message that tone is subjective which gets people's backs up.
Perhaps we should have heeded Rod's original response and stopped it there. In any event, I'm sure OP has a better idea of his way forward now than he did before posting, and everyone who has posted here has contributed to his increased knowledge, and mine.
Here's what I've learned:
Wood selection must have some effect on tone, but how pronounced an effect is (very) debatable. When I do my Tele bass build, I'll choose neck woods that will give me the best chance of having a stable instrument with no perceptible dead spots, that has the look I'm after and is available at a reasonable cost (wenge and ebony are favorites). Body wood selection will be based on availability/cost, design (cap or not) and aesthetics. Assuming I build it decently, I should have a stable platform on which to mount the best electronics and hardware I can afford. String choice, EQ and pup selection should allow me to get most any tone I want.