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First love broke my heart

You didn't have your heartbroken, sorry to say. When you TRULY love someone and they break your heart, you'll know the difference.

When I was 15, I was with someone for almost a year, and she was my first in more ways than one. She dumped me and a week later started going out with my best friend who told me "What was I supposed to wait forever for you to be over her?" I lost someone I truly cared about AND I lost my best friend.

THAT is a case of being 15 and being heartbroken by a true love.

Don't know what to say... You probably have had some sort of social issues for a long time. But you are a great bassist aren't you? I'm pretty sure music healed your wounds. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
 
Some of you think knocking on someone's door over a period of several days, in broad daylight, where everyone can see, is stalking? Jeepers, I hope you don't have guns and badges.

Re: the op being misogynistic in his posts, he's a little boy talking schoolyard talk. Pointing out the idiotic lingo and that arousal isn't love are the only good advice in this thread. That's all a child needs to know from this peanut gallery. :D

OP: you need to stay away from the silly little girl. If she ever runs into you and says anything, you need to tell her your intention was only to try to get to know her and she had a major over-reaction. Then walk away from her immediately. She may throw insults as you leave. Do not respond or turn around.
 
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Some of you think knocking on someone's door over a period of several days, in broad daylight, where everyone can see, is stalking? Jeepers, I hope you don't have guns and badges.

I agree with you here.

Re: the op being misogynistic in his posts, he's a little boy talking schoolyard talk.

And double for this.

OP: you need to stay away from the silly little girl. If she ever runs into you and says anything, you need to tell her your intention was only to try to get to know her and she had a major over-reaction. Then walk away from her immediately. She may throw insults as you leave. Do not respond or turn around.

And this is some good advice on how to handle this girl.
 
Some of you think knocking on someone's door over a period of several days, in broad daylight, where everyone can see, is stalking? Jeepers, I hope you don't have guns and badges.

Re: the op being misogynistic in his posts, he's a little boy talking schoolyard talk. Pointing out the idiotic lingo and that arousal isn't love are the only good advice in this thread. That's all a child needs to know from this peanut gallery. :D

OP: you need to stay away from the silly little girl. If she ever runs into you and says anything, you need to tell her your intention was only to try to get to know her and she had a major over-reaction. Then walk away from her immediately. She may throw insults as you leave. Do not respond or turn around.

good post and good advice

I feel compelled to say that in my earlier rabbithole posts I never intended to say that derp was stalking the girl, rather that it makes sense that she could have actually felt the way she did (rather than just making stuff up)