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First love broke my heart

#121
EricF said:
As the father of a 14yo girl, I have witnessed this exact thing happen with a couple of her friends. Most recently...Boy tried to make a move on Girl. Girl refused. Boy started telling all his friends that Girl did something very inappropriate for a 14yo. Thanks to the magic of the intarwebz, Girl got a bad rep in 2.17 seconds, and very ugly things were posted about her. This rumor was faster to spread and easier to believe than the fact that Boy was a lying dirtbag.


On a side note - No, Derp. You may not have my daughter's phone number, instagram, kik, or any other contact info. She already has a stalker. :scowl:

;)
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Eww... That's sad... I hope the dirtbag guy gets his lesson, although, I think, years ahead, he will be sorry for doing it and will blame himself. That pity itself would be enough punishment. No one's naturally a *****bag from birth, he will level out sometime.
 
#122
MatticusMania said:
I think he was saying here that his friend told him this girl had accused other guys of "stalking her and trying to rape her" and that got those guys in trouble. Thats why his ass was saved, and he referred to her as a dirty b****.
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I see. Derp let me know if this is the case

MatticusMania said:
What the OP did may have creeped the girl out, but I dont think he was quite stalking her, and certainly not trying to rape her.
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knocking one day, knocking next day, knocking next day, pounding next day...stalking to me, but it really doesn't matter. The girl actually believing what she said rather than making stuff up is still feasible in my mind

MatticusMania said:
"automatically assuming the 14 year old girl is a skank" Those are your words, not the OPs.
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His words were "What a dirty ***** have I come across with?" "Skank" is a lesser way of saying "dirty *****" in my mind
 
#123
Derp said:
Eww... That's sad... I hope the dirtbag guy gets his lesson, although, I think, years ahead, he will be sorry for doing it and will blame himself.
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Youthful optimism is so refreshing.

Derp said:
That pity itself would be enough punishment. No one's naturally a *****bag from birth, he will level out sometime.
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Don't count on it. I have traveled around the ball of fire in the sky a few more times than you, and I've seen plenty of examples to the contrary.
 
#125
macaroni tony said:
I see. Derp let me know if this is the case
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I could be wrong, but thats more the impression Im getting here.

knocking one day, knocking next day, knocking next day, pounding next day...stalking to me, but it really doesn't matter. The girl actually believing what she said rather than making stuff up is still feasible in my mind
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Why the hyperbole? He knocked a few days in a row, no answer each time. All the OP says of the matter: "I got my guts together and knocked on her door. Nobody answered. I did it several days in a row."

If there was no answer how would anyone know he had knocked once? And if someone did know why didnt anyone answer and tell the kid to leave?

His words were "What a dirty ***** have I come across with?" "Skank" is a lesser way of saying "dirty *****" in my mind
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I dont know about you, but those two words mean very different things where I was brought up.
 
#126
macaroni tony said:
I see. Derp let me know if this is the case



knocking one day, knocking next day, knocking next day, pounding next day...stalking to me, but it really doesn't matter. The girl actually believing what she said rather than making stuff up is still feasible in my mind



His words were "What a dirty ***** have I come across with?" "Skank" is a lesser way of saying "dirty *****" in my mind
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I have been told plenty of times that she seduced guys, really did it and then turned guys' lives into hell. Again, god bless my friend who made me aware of this. Pretty much like the "crazy ex" thread.
 
#127
MatticusMania said:
I could be wrong, but thats more the impression Im getting here.



Why the hyperbole? He knocked a few days in a row, no answer each time. All the OP says of the matter: "I got my guts together and knocked on her door. Nobody answered. I did it several days in a row."

If there was no answer how would anyone know he had knocked once? And if someone did know why didnt anyone answer and tell the kid to leave?



I dont know about you, but those two words mean very different things where I was brought up.
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Probably cause the girl told her parents not to. Maybe she was trying to be nice and avoiding being rude (less probable but I kind of regret calling her a B). Who knows? She is mentally unbalanced, so...
 
#128
Derp said:
She is mentally unbalanced, so...
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As is a large percentage of the female population. You will find this out for yourself soon enough.

Old guy wisdom for you to file away for later review...
All chicks are crazy. The trick is to find the type and level of crazy you can deal with. You will also find that there are frequently some benefits that often go along with crazy chicks. Some day, you'll know what I'm talking about.
 
#129
EricF said:
As is a large percentage of the female population. You will find this out for yourself soon enough.

Old guy wisdom for you to file away for later review...
All chicks are crazy. The trick is to find the type and level of crazy you can deal with. You will also find that there are frequently some benefits that often go along with crazy chicks. Some day, you'll know what I'm talking about.
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Yeah, girls are much more complicated than guys. Two guys fight and insult each other, and soon become best friends(This is how you usually make friends, isn't it?), while three girls pretend to have fun and when the third one is gone, these two girls start talking **** on her, just because her purse is more expensive... Weird...
 
#130
Derp said:
Yeah, girls are much more complicated than guys. Two guys fight and insult each other, and soon become best friends(This is how you usually make friends, isn't it?), while three girls pretend to have fun and when the third one is gone, these two girls start talking **** on her, just because her purse is more expensive... Weird...
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[Yoda voice]Just the scratched surface, you have.[/Yoda voice]

Also...

"B****es be b****es!" - Mrs. EricF
 
#132
Derp said:
I know what's lust. If you know what I mean. But I don't fully understand love.
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I don't think any 15 year boy knows the difference, trust me (and the other posters here, most of us have been through that stage of life).


Derp said:
WOODY hahahahahaha I'm on the floor. You people are as awesome as always.
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I wouldn't laugh all off all of that, it's pretty serious to realise the right and wrong of what was pointed out to you.


Derp said:
Yeah, girls are much more complicated than guys. Two guys fight and insult each other, and soon become best friends(This is how you usually make friends, isn't it?), while three girls pretend to have fun and when the third one is gone, these two girls start talking **** on her, just because her purse is more expensive... Weird...
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You talk about women being catty to each other, after posting comments like this:

Derp said:
I have been told plenty of times that she seduced guys, really did it and then turned guys' lives into hell. Again, god bless my friend who made me aware of this. Pretty much like the "crazy ex" thread.
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Derp said:
She is mentally unbalanced, so...
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From your OP, it doesn't come across as her being the unbalanced one . . .
 
#133
EricF said:
As is a large percentage of the female population. You will find this out for yourself soon enough.

Old guy wisdom for you to file away for later review...
All chicks are crazy. The trick is to find the type and level of crazy you can deal with. You will also find that there are frequently some benefits that often go along with crazy chicks. Some day, you'll know what I'm talking about.
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I can honestly say that most be crazy. Some are simply hiding it better.

If a chick is crazy, she's crazy. If she seems normal, there's a95% she'll unleash the crazy after you put a ring on her finger.
 
#134
MatticusMania said:
Why the hyperbole? He knocked a few days in a row, no answer each time. All the OP says of the matter: "I got my guts together and knocked on her door. Nobody answered. I did it several days in a row."
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No hyperbole. Went back and read OP,

I did it several days in a row. After the last attempt I got on my bike and sadly and at the same time kind of angrily rapidly started pedalling towards my house when one of a sudden she appeared on the street.
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"Kind of angrily rapidly" got associated with the knocking in my mind at the time

MatticusMania said:
I dont know about you, but those two words mean very different things where I was brought up.
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assume "dirty *****" was connected with her alleged sexual exploits, which was the assumption at the time and you will catch my drift
 
#137
You didn't have your heartbroken, sorry to say. When you TRULY love someone and they break your heart, you'll know the difference.

When I was 15, I was with someone for almost a year, and she was my first in more ways than one. She dumped me and a week later started going out with my best friend who told me "What was I supposed to wait forever for you to be over her?" I lost someone I truly cared about AND I lost my best friend.

THAT is a case of being 15 and being heartbroken by a true love.
 

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