That's easy J.....because in each persons world, they ALWAYS have a better way.
I have a better way than Obama to fight terrorism....bring all the troops back here and put them on the streets.
And dare some idiot to try something with troops everywhere armed to the hilt.....(joking to make a point).
I say this kinda sarcasticly, kinda serious.
No one likes to be wrong or know that they didn't do as good if not better.
I don't care how humble a cat is, or how sincere they try to be- they, you, me just don't like to be "not as good".
we can be "PC" and say the right things, but everyone has an ego that comes out.
Yours did J. Your comment about telling someone to go f themselves proved that.
Is that a bad thing? Hell no.
Not to me. I know and love you, so I totally get where you're coming from.
Is Andrew Gouche really that much better than you or I?
Subjective at best.
Honestly it is.
I'm sure there is SOMETHING I do better than he that someone will like.
It's impossible to qualify "better" when it comes to music.
(I doubt there is really!

For the record, I don't claim to be on his level- so relax!)
But most will qualify how they could maybe do it better. And in their minds they can.
Again- subjective.
I play with some INSANLY good guys right now.
Doing the R&B thing as good as anyone IMO. They smoke at that.
Me, not so much. I'm not an R&B guy much at all.
"New" country. All day long.
Get them to play a Lady Antebellum song like it's SUPPOSED to be played........Sorry, I smoke them every time. They can't come close to my feel on it.
I posted up a Keith Urban video a while back in another thread. Abso-effin-lutly perfect excution of a song by his band (I'll find the link again). Not just his song. Just a song.
Is Andrew Gouche better than Jerry Flowers? Who is he you ask?
The bass player for Keith Urban. And Jerry flat out KILLS on that gig in every aspect (you don't get the bass slot with pretty much the biggest male artist in country/pop because you're "OK").
My long winded comment here.......in the moment, when everything for a player is clicking on a tune, they are the flat out best on that stage.
I've played modern gospel, and at times, I felt, I was flat out killin' the tune like I wrote it.
A lot of it is genre "class warfare" as well.
Take someone like Andrew Gouche for example (and not to single him out, just an example) and listen to a track of his.
Then take Jerry Flowers (again, as an example).
Almost EVERYONE will take Andrew Gouche as being the "better player".
Is he? Really?
I would bet again, almost everyone here would really think Jerry Flowers and be like "meh....

I could do that easily as good or better than him...".
And you play the tune and you really feel like you did.
(Then you get on THAT gig and have your arse handed to you before the second chorus of the first song at sound check)
So, it goes back to, at that moment, on that stage, when you are playing that song, you are THAT guy and then some.
I am yet to hear anyone on here say they didn't get a gig, or didn't play something because they were not good enough.
Hell J, I'd take a shot at playing your stuff, and on some level on some song, I may feel I did a better job than you.
Or you on my gig and you may feel you did/do a better job than me (and you could really!).