Currently a 3 piece band (me on bass, drummer and guitarist). I started the band 3 years ago so its been a long process finding the right people/
5 months later we are still looking for a singer. As the founder and band leader I sort of had a vision in my head about what we are looking for. So when a singer auditions, I can basically see potential or write him off after one jam based on all the criteria you look for in a frontman.
The thing is my band mates don't agree with my method of auditioning. The way I see it, if a singer has potential i.e you like their personality, sound, image etc then you call them back for a second audition. But if someone is way off what you're looking for whats the point if you dont see a future?
Anyways our latest auditioner was really crap in my opinion. He had good stage presence but that was about it. His lyrics were stupid and immature, has different influences/style, his timing and musical knowledge was missing, his sound was crap, he is a redneck and he is brain-fried from substance abuse (talks really slow etc). My drummer didnt like him but insists I am being too harsch and need to give him time as with my guitarist however he liked him a bit more than we did.
Even though I am the leader/founder I dont want to be a dictator boss because it never works that way and my bandmates will just leave me. But am I seriously in the wrong here? Aren't you supposed to be extremly superficial in the auditioning process especially with something you created and are passionate about.
I dont want to make them feel like their opinion doesnt count but its hard to make them feel that way when you find it really difficult to comprehend why they would see potential in something that is way off and they know it. They think I am being prejudiced because I am refusing to give him a chance because he is a redneck which is complete BS. However I still stand by my right to refuse to be in a band with someone because of their personality.
I spoke to them to give them my side of the story as did they and we all made up and stuff but last jam it was mentioned again because the guitarist asked the tricky question "Whats the point to audition him if you dont even want him in the band". Then the whole discussion got fired up again. Need advice. Thanks.
5 months later we are still looking for a singer. As the founder and band leader I sort of had a vision in my head about what we are looking for. So when a singer auditions, I can basically see potential or write him off after one jam based on all the criteria you look for in a frontman.
The thing is my band mates don't agree with my method of auditioning. The way I see it, if a singer has potential i.e you like their personality, sound, image etc then you call them back for a second audition. But if someone is way off what you're looking for whats the point if you dont see a future?
Anyways our latest auditioner was really crap in my opinion. He had good stage presence but that was about it. His lyrics were stupid and immature, has different influences/style, his timing and musical knowledge was missing, his sound was crap, he is a redneck and he is brain-fried from substance abuse (talks really slow etc). My drummer didnt like him but insists I am being too harsch and need to give him time as with my guitarist however he liked him a bit more than we did.
Even though I am the leader/founder I dont want to be a dictator boss because it never works that way and my bandmates will just leave me. But am I seriously in the wrong here? Aren't you supposed to be extremly superficial in the auditioning process especially with something you created and are passionate about.
I dont want to make them feel like their opinion doesnt count but its hard to make them feel that way when you find it really difficult to comprehend why they would see potential in something that is way off and they know it. They think I am being prejudiced because I am refusing to give him a chance because he is a redneck which is complete BS. However I still stand by my right to refuse to be in a band with someone because of their personality.
I spoke to them to give them my side of the story as did they and we all made up and stuff but last jam it was mentioned again because the guitarist asked the tricky question "Whats the point to audition him if you dont even want him in the band". Then the whole discussion got fired up again. Need advice. Thanks.
. Although I have written a few lyrics in my handy dandy notebook before.