This issue appears to be working itself out. It's more about illness and people taking care of themselves (or not), which is, I suppose, also one of those things that creeps into our lives more as we age.IDK if this applies to your situation, but as I get older, life seems to get in the way of what I(or the group)wanna do-family, other responsibilities,etc.
[paper bag of shame] I loved that song 