It's a shame people seem to be devoid of common sense or etiquette these days.
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Based on the OP, I didn't find anything remotely rude about the request. Maybe I missed some details. The kids were not confrontational and they were not breaking any social codes (such as budging in line). I would actually be quite surprised if somebody said "no" and continued to play over their video given the circumstance. Additionally, the suggestion of refusing and then actually making a point to interfere with the video is far more offensive that somebody asking a stranger to hold off for a minute while they film. Of course there is the fact that these were children/teenagers which should factor into any reasonable adults reaction to their social graces.
If the worst part of your day involves the sentence "somebody at GC asked me to stop playing" then you should really sit back and evaluate your life because it is friggin' awesome.
I personally wouldn't use a retail store as my free venue to shoot a video and if I did so, I'd work around people that are trying to check out gear, giving them priority, instead of claiming "dibs" on a large chunk of the retail floor and asking others to stop playing.
I'm not sure but it sounds like the girl was just doing a quick phone vid to show her friends, not a full music video shoot with dancers and fireworks, lol!I personally wouldn't use a retail store as my free venue to shoot a video and if I did so, I'd work around people that are trying to check out gear, giving them priority, instead of claiming "dibs" on a large chunk of the retail floor and asking others to stop playing.
I'm not sure but it sounds like the girl was just doing a quick phone vid to show her friends, not a full music video shoot with dancers and fireworks, lol!
No fireworks, but they were going for at least 15 minutes. No idea how long before I got there and how long after I left.
So they did have dancers?No fireworks, but they were going for at least 15 minutes. No idea how long before I got there and how long after I left.
So they did have dancers?![]()
That's pretty sad. You sound like a textbook example of the cure being worse than the problem.![]()
Wow, you're a ball of fun. Maybe you could have punched her in the face, too, and doubled your enjoyment.
Rich, that was a great story and a great way to cap off my evening. I would have totally complied and sat there and watched. Sometimes people pull such ballsy moves that all you can do is laugh.
I don't think you understand how important it is to indulge these kids' sense of entitlement. They have a right to shoot their video anytime and anywhere they want, even if that includes a venue that is not intended for that purpose. The world should shut the hell up and get out of the way so they can express themselves on social media.
I would of went ape s*** crazy...![]()
I would've complained to the staff, and make it their problem. Probably make some stuff up, tell them the guy with the video device was mishandling the instruments or stealing something.
Then, I would've paused at the door on my way out to watch the uncomfortable confrontation. Maybe come back to check out the amp some other day.
I prefer to stir sith up and observe rather than get caught up in it myself. Call me evil if it suits me. More entertaining that way.
They made a request. That's their right. Yours is to comply or not. If you needed to scoot past them to plug in an amp that would be okay, right? So what does it matter. Why are you so important? I hear a sense of entitlement. Is your time so valuable?
Again. They asked. You don't have to comply. You could. You don't have to. Isn't it like when someone asks you to take a picture of them at some tourist sight? "Naw! Grow some more arms," you say.
It's no wonder we don't get along. We don't get that each of us is equally important. Some one lets you in line because you have one item and they have a cart full. They don't have to at all!
