Honestly,
this is the saddest, saddest gripe I've heard in a quite awhile.
And I've seen it pop up more and more on the interwebz.
I'd advise any band that cannot come to grips with a promoter's, or venue's query,
to rent your own hall, or simply PAY-TO-PLAY.
And I don't mean your mincing "they want me to advance tickets", I mean 1980s NYC/LA showcase-style $250 for 25 minutes in front of industry-types.
When I read the snarky lil witticisms you spew, I imagine weak-knee'd suburban brahs who believe that; because their dad's a lawyer, and he's funding this lil weekend tour, should hold more weight than the fact that cosmetology school is your best bet.
But I know that's not the case; I'm certain that each of you comes from a broader background than that.
I don't like to use the question much, myself. But when you are an unknown band...as in I ask anyone booking shows in the area you hail from, and they say "who?" Asking about your draw answers 2 big questions:
1)someone(s) actually think(s) you're worth the time/effort
2)there is the possibility of return on investment.
I understand if you're from an hour away, and you may not bring people all the way here...but if you tell me that you pack the neighborhood bar, or can get 100 kids into your local concert hall...maybe my locals will dig you, too. You've got a Pissah live show, brah...
I would much rather have 10 people in the room, enjoying the show, than 30prepaid tickets, and no one in the room. That's just me, that's just how our venue runs. I'm quite sure you can do much, much better with yours.
But I get it...you're a lil cranky, and you need a decent strawman to quip to death.