The drummer in my band is technically very good, has a great skill set for pop/rock.
However, he doesn't hear the music, and frequently speeds the tempo up to what I consider ridiculous speeds.
that doesn't sound like a good drummer to me. . .

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The drummer in my band is technically very good, has a great skill set for pop/rock.
However, he doesn't hear the music, and frequently speeds the tempo up to what I consider ridiculous speeds.

And FWIW (that surprised me a little) people seem to enjoy our songs more than before. Maybe tempo has nothing to do with it, but... well.
IMO : Metronome is the key.
that doesn't sound like a good drummer to me. . .![]()
I've tried. After 1.5 years I give up. I just do the gig, get paid, then go home.
Out of curiosity, does he play music that changes tempo? This is only my own curiosity asking this question.
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I can be the drummers best friend or their worst enemy when it comes to this crap. I went 3 years in one gig before I had enough and bailed. I did everything humanly possible to help this guy and I got nowhere. Now I won't do a gig if the drummer has worse internal meter than I do. That's his/her job. If they can't bring it, I ain't playing all night trying to get in the prepetual moving pocket. Screw that.
Any drummer that's mature enough to recognize or accept that they have meter issues will accept the simple fact that they need help. A click. Period. The ones that fall to denial need to grow up because it's just a self-defeating attitude. Those folks will always be second-rate players. The key to improving is overcoming personal shortcomings.
Good luck with your drummer. Trying to help is the right thing to do but don't bust a nut doing it.
I hear you,... our drummer is all over the map, too fast, too slow, sometimes in the same song...This might be what it takes.
And to all who said drummers who just have a natural instinctive feel for appropriate tempos are like hen's teeth, I couldn't agree more.
My guitarist subs for another local band on occassion. I caught their show last weekend. The tempos were awesome. Laid back, in the groove, still very funky and danceable, without being rushed. I actually thought a couple of tunes were a tad slow, but it really helped the band members give great deliveries of their parts. Even the slightly dragging tunes sounded great.
I was so jealous.