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I CAN'T MAKE UP MY MIND ABOUT MEN!!!!!!!

Pffffffffffffffft!!!!! You're really a guy and we all know it -- Give up the pretense already! You've just found some Korean chick's MySpace that you keep linking pictures from...

C'mon now, 'fess up -- You're really a 6'1", 280 lb. Russian guy - with a gut of significant, nay, EPIC! proportions - named...

KSERG!

...aren't you?????

;) :p
paranoia is bad
 
Pffffffffffffffft!!!!! You're really a guy and we all know it -- Give up the pretense already! You've just found some Korean chick's MySpace that you keep linking pictures from...

C'mon now, 'fess up -- You're really a 6'1", 280 lb. Russian guy - with a gut of significant, nay, EPIC! proportions - named...

KSERG!

...aren't you?????

;) :p

I HAVE to be a girl or else I wouldn't change my mind so often. Plus, I think these freak outs only happen once a month.
 
yo seriously, hot asian bass player with amazing voice wants to settle down with me.... where do i sign? lol



and yo.... everything you just mentioned is how a lot of us guys feel too... its all "wrong place wrong time" kinda thing. the guys who are looking are never in the same place as the girls who are looking... maybe u just need a change of scenery..
 
Elgin is only a 15 minute drive for me so I can see dis' anytime I want to, so "nanner nanner nanner!"

Although the cops gave me a piece of paper telling me to stop hanging around her house to try and see her (I think they called it a "restraining" something or other).:hiding:



Just kidding!:D

No, no, no -- That's a "re-staining" order. In other words, they're inviting you back to her house to "do your business"...

;) :p :D
 
Its hard for guys. Once a guy is let down its really hard to trust again.


Here's a little story, this will show you how guys CAN be... One woman was at a husband / wife therapist thing. Now... during a session, the wife called him a "two minute lover" So, that obviously bothered him. Things never got better, he just kinda stuck around, she was the cold one originally, then he became the cold one, she tried to get things going nothing worked out, etc etc.

Fast forward 6 years. The man divorces her because of that comment...


he just sat there unhappy, Never forgot, then one day i guess it hit him harder then other days...



Hell, i cant lie.... Im sure you remember that breakup thread i posted with my Ex Fiancee and how it ended, and how she would randomly say things about me, and to me (She still does, i just ignore it) And even tho things went to hell, i STILL am not over it, that was in December... Some people just cant deal like others. I know I cant.
 
Hey , I have a friend who has been divorced for a year .

He makes decent money , not a druggie or alky, plays geetar as a hobby only, women like him tec...

He wants a friend for now and want to see were it goes.

He has had a lot of chances to go out and he has turned a lot of set ups down as well as any woman who asks me , him or anyone else ,
"does he have a good job"
"how much does he make"
" Do you think he would be a good father/husband"
" I like to party every night until 3 am "
"meth is cool"



hang in there.

You seem like a desirable person from what I have seen and read here
 
Its hard for guys. Once a guy is let down its really hard to trust again.


Here's a little story, this will show you how guys CAN be... One woman was at a husband / wife therapist thing. Now... during a session, the wife called him a "two minute lover" So, that obviously bothered him. Things never got better, he just kinda stuck around, she was the cold one originally, then he became the cold one, she tried to get things going nothing worked out, etc etc.

Fast forward 6 years. The man divorces her because of that comment...


he just sat there unhappy, Never forgot, then one day i guess it hit him harder then other days...



Hell, i cant lie.... Im sure you remember that breakup thread i posted with my Ex Fiancee and how it ended, and how she would randomly say things about me, and to me (She still does, i just ignore it) And even tho things went to hell, i STILL am not over it, that was in December... Some people just cant deal like others. I know I cant.

Sticks and stones may break your bones but words can hurt forever. Some would say, ah, they are just words get over it. However, when the jabs and cut downs just keep coming they add up over time.