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I CAN'T MAKE UP MY MIND ABOUT MEN!!!!!!!

Hey, I didn't make up the title to this thread, buddy! :spit:

First it's I'M DONE WITH MEN, and you get about 100 guys posting on that thread. Then, it's I CAN'T MAKE UP MY MIND ABOUT MEN, and you get that same 100 guys posting there. I'm sure later, you'll post a thread I HATE ALL MEN, and you'll still get that 100 guys posting there. Doesn't get you ANYwhere.
 
First it's I'M DONE WITH MEN, and you get about 100 guys posting on that thread. Then, it's I CAN'T MAKE UP MY MIND ABOUT MEN, and you get that same 100 guys posting there. I'm sure later, you'll post a thread I HATE ALL MEN, and you'll still get that 100 guys posting there. Doesn't get you ANYwhere.

Thank you Captain Obvious.
 
Nah, I don't think you're harsh at all. I WOULD LIKE to get off the internet, but I don't have many friends to hang out with anymore. I guess it happens when you get older and your friends are all married with kids. I'm sure all your friends are married with kids. They just aren't much for going out. So in reality, I have been hanging out with younger people because they aren't married with kids. I'd like to meet some girls to hang with, but how do you meet girls? I guess at work...but I don't have a job.

I'm not so concerned about 23's lack of whatever. I expected that. I guess I'm mostly tired of being TOLD that they are not interested BECAUSE some girl hurt them in the past. And I never know if that is the truth, or some line that really means "I'm not interested."

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Wass up fellow asian female comrade. Men will be men. They're afraid of rejection and are definitely afraid of commitment. I say you continue to hone in on what you "love" to do. And do it like nothing matters. Men always find ways to pop in and check out if you're the one they've been looking for.

Don't wait or look around. You're worth more than that and especially your time is worth more than that. Once you start to feel that you're competing with time, you'll see how many little pests start creeping around and you'll have quite a selection.

The first step though is get out and do something you love. If it's playing the bass, just do is hard core. Nothing is more sexy and desirable than a woman who really has a passion.

Don't ever EVER settle! Don't settle with your friends, family, or the choices your make. It's a reflection of the respect you have for yourself.
 
Dis, I'd ask you out if I wasn't already married, 45 and several states away. But I guess that doesn't really help, does it?

I found my wife when I wasn't looking. Heck, she was even married at the time!! Just became good friends and when her marriage fell apart, I helped her pick up the pieces. And I was not responsible for the falling apart either.
 
Wass up fellow asian female comrade. Men will be men. They're afraid of rejection and are definitely afraid of commitment. I say you continue to hone in on what you "love" to do. And do it like nothing matters. Men always find ways to pop in and check out if you're the one they've been looking for.

Don't wait or look around. You're worth more than that and especially your time is worth more than that. Once you start to feel that you're competing with time, you'll see how many little pests start creeping around and you'll have quite a selection.

The first step though is get out and do something you love. If it's playing the bass, just do is hard core. Nothing is more sexy and desirable than a woman who really has a passion.

Don't ever EVER settle! Don't settle with your friends, family, or the choices your make. It's a reflection of the respect you have for yourself.

:D :D :D :D :D
 
That film that Will Smith was in: "Hitch". There was a line that went:- No woman is ever looking for a relationship". Change that into "nobody etc........"

Goes both ways. That's why they call it FALLING in love not projecting into love. If you show up with a 5 year plan it will never work.