Accidently dinging your bass is one thing... and if you ruin it because you're a dork, well, that's still not intentionally making it look "beat up".
Trying to make it look like you have played that thing all of your life, like you're some old seasoned pro in his 70's now with that same old guitar, is just more of the same thing I expect to see these days of gotta have it yesterday without putting any real work into it and the acceptance of more and more fake things, like, trying to convince me that Greta Van Fleet isn't ripping off Zeppelin all day long while saying "there's nothing to look at, move along"..
Sorry, we're living in a world filled with people that get upset and offended if you say anything other than positive things or disagree with another person's idea or opinion. ... and I couldn't care less who's upset.