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I really screwed myself this time.

this has come down to discussin opnions...

i can see both sides of the argument ...

i choose the ... don't lie to your wife side! ... cause trust me she may not know ... but she sure as heck will notice something is off EVENTUALLY. may not be now... may not be in 5 years... heck as in my case with something else 8-9 years later... it'll all start coming together.

i learned my lesson on that one already
 
Could be. I certainly dont have details into everyones relationships, but I'd think thats a pretty poor way to view the reasons behind a womans smile.
My girlfriend and I are constantly smiling, because we make each other laugh.
She could be effing with my head, but I'd prefer to give her the benefit of the doubt and presume it genuine until proven otherwise..

Well, Matt, You've found out, I'm not a very socially wealthy male. :D

By that token, why bother with relationships? Stay single, go out and mingle.
Or find a girl into the idea of an open relationship.

Nah, girls always have this deal in this head like "if I'm in a relationship, things are working. If I'm with a guy who doesn't show he's whipped enough, he'll **** around. That's **** law". I remember one time I expressed interest in getting closer to a girl.
"so what are you really looking for? to have sex?"

"uh, well, that's usually a good part of relationships........"

And not a single **** had been given ever since. Talking? Done.
 
Smokin' Toaster said:
I hope you never have reason to experience it bro.

But for those of us who have, here's the benefit of some experience:

With your mindset, she may not love you anymore, but her lawyer CERTAINLY will.

Oh, your bank account, house, 401k, etc. etc. probably won't love you anymore either. If they do, it will be a long distance love affair ;).

None of this pertains to what I was talking about.
 
Sorry Darth, I thought better of it and deleted the post.

Good luck not finding out about anything that you don't want to find out about.
 
Sorry Darth, I thought better of it and deleted the post.

Good luck not finding out about anything that you don't want to find out about.

No need for luck
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