I deserve to get paid just like the doc, the mechanic, and the hairdresser.
Cherie
Then get paid. No one is stopping you. Like those who may wish to play for free, or like any doctor or mechanic or hairdresser, you can charge whatever you like.
Just please don't pretend that your hairdresser, doctor, and mechanic always charged what they charge today, now that they know their job well, or that they are putting out of business hairdressers, doctors, and mechanics that charge 2x, 5x, or 10x more.
And yes, some people do give medical advice for free, cut hair for free, or fix cars for free. Perhaps for their own families & friends, perhaps for the poor, perhaps to learn their trade. They're not taking work from anyone, and if some people come to expect free haircuts then they can take what they get and maybe walk around looking goofy or they can pay for a pro.
What's next? Guys who shave their heads are putting salons out of business? Wives are putting whores out of business? I tell someone what mode to try over an F#m and I'm putting pro music teachers out of business? If I charge for lessons, should I give my instructor a commission?
Don't the entire "Technique" and "General Instruction" forums devalue pro music teachers by giving away info for free? Isn't the "For Sale" section cutting into eBay's profits? What chance has a bass magazine got if we post pics and reviews here for free?! And yet some who similarly twist logic are freely paying to support this very site. If we can't all think clearly, we can at least enjoy some irony together?
Since rational thinking and logic won't help anyone earn much in the bar band scene, I'll also offer this :
- merch sales.
- tips.
- networking.
Some of the gigs that promised to pay me the least up-front ended up being the most lucrative once all was said and done. It just takes some hustle.
The most rewarding gig I've had started by my willingness to play a CD release gig for $40. That might as well be free, really, especially since it was supposed to be a one-off. Had I demanded $20 per hour, much less my real day job pay, to learn the tunes, rehearse, and gig, I'd have never gotten the gig and lost out on a LOT of income that eventually came from being involved in that project along with some wonderful experiences, friendship, music, and development as a player. That development and networking then lead to more paid work, maybe even at the expense of some pro that's a much better than me but is too grumpy and demanding for people to bother with. A bad attitude or lack of hustle will lose people far more income in any business than an amateur could ever hope to "take away".
What people expect to pay is their buisiness and they may or may not get what they pay for. What people ask to get paid is their buisness.
One bar in my city has had a line-up every night for 20 years, through the metal years, the grunge years, the DJ era, karaoke, Guitar Hero, etc. They have cover bands playing. Pro, top-quality, sounds-just-like-the-CD, type bands. I don't think that the bands that play there for very good pay have to worry about losing work any time soon to amateur bands arriving late wearing dirty t-shirts and playing sloppy covers and tuning through the PA between songs and willing to play for free.