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Is this a “thing” now?

:) I gotta ask...and I am not being a smart aleck. What color socks should I wear with my New Balance sneakers and shorts? :)

I don't mean to gig in...I would never consider that! I wear black socks every day of the week with my jeans and work boots...but for some reason, if I wear shorts or New Balance or both...I feel foolish wearing black socks. What should I do?

BTW...your post is spot on as always! I think of you when I am picking out my all black gig clothes or setting up stage lights because you bring it up often! Keep it up!

Going to Lowe's? Hanging at the park? Picnic? Doesn't matter what color socks.

On stage? Shorts and white socks are out. :D
 
:) I gotta ask...and I am not being a smart aleck. What color socks should I wear with my New Balance sneakers and shorts? :)

I don't mean to gig in...I would never consider that! I wear black socks every day of the week with my jeans and work boots...but for some reason, if I wear shorts or New Balance or both...I feel foolish wearing black socks. What should I do?

BTW...your post is spot on as always! I think of you when I am picking out my all black gig clothes or setting up stage lights because you bring it up often! Keep it up!

What your are looking for are ankle socks. Black, white, whatever, it doesn't matter.

Wear them with any shoe accompanying your shorts, even Birkenstocks. :)
 
What your are looking for are ankle socks. Black, white, whatever, it doesn't matter.

Wear them with any shoe accompanying your shorts, even Birkenstocks. :)
You are correct on the sock advice. My fashion foward wife helps me out by buying my stage cloths . She also schooled me on the sock thing,just because I'm old doesn't mean I want to dress like an old man! Lol
 
To the OP...doesnt make sense to me.
First criteria, are they a good player, and a good fit.

In reality, the very good younger kids have their thing going...which we've all done so understandably from their POV, age is more critical.

We invite a few young guys only if they have musical maturity and therefore there is no issue.

They all play from the blues anyway, so there is your common language.
 
I just realized something that, maybe, I knew all along.

This kinda junk doesn't happen in jazz. Only in rock and pop. In jazz, there are only two things that matter.

1. Are you sober enough to play?
2. Can you actually play?

That's it. Only in rock and pop do you have the so-called rebellious attitudes and DIY crap going on that make people believe it's OK to suck. In jazz you just have to be a musician.

Jazz seems like the minimum age requirement is 65.
 
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I'm a 63 year old short, "chunky" guy who loves to play bass and sing in my band. My wife is the youngest (I won't divulge her age)
Considering you posted this pic of yourselves last year, no need to be modest now.
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One ad I saw said 'same age as me', without saying how old that was. He didn't answer, when I said 'If you're going to be fussy about age, at least tell us how old you want us to be'.

My band has 22, 37 and 58. None of us gives a Tom Tit about how old any of us is.

I play in a band that does mostly originals with a few covers thrown in so people can know that we really can rock the house: I'm at least 20 years older than the next younger player, and I have had no indication that they want me gone. In fact, they specifically asked me to join them because they knew my capabilities.

They couldn't care less about my age.

Full disclosure: I'm not a fat old man, but I am 65. This week I cut down/up and hauled a maple tree about 2' on the stump, by my self.
 
I play in a band that does mostly originals with a few covers thrown in so people can know that we really can rock the house: I'm at least 20 years older than the next younger player, and I have had no indication that they want me gone. In fact, they specifically asked me to join them because they knew my capabilities.

They couldn't care less about my age.

Full disclosure: I'm not a fat old man, but I am 65. This week I cut down/up and hauled a maple tree about 2' on the stump, by my self.
Age matters if you're a cheese
 
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His project, his requirements. I wouldn't touch it ... cuz I'm too old. I've been with the current band since 2010 ... we played every other weekend during that time, with the exception of 15 months during the height of the pandemic. We're old. Our audience is old. Our country music from the 40s thru the 80s is old. The band has 2-1/2 centuries of music experience, all told.

Band leader: 82 years old. Fronting this band continuously since 1970. Does all the booking, handles promotion, and personally greets everyone he can during the breaks. 62 years experience!
Lead guitar: 79 years old. Amazing chops, good vocals. Played with many of the old time country players as they toured the area (they used local bands). Encyclopedic knowledge of the genre.
Drummer: 71 years old. 50 years of playing all sorts of music. Has a great sense of what the band needs, and we work as a good team.
Bass (me): 68 years old. 50 years of playing guitar, bass, keys. Sing lead about 1/2 the songs, harmony on others. I've played many genres, too.
Piano: 52 years old. Playing for decades. MFA in music. Choral director. Local theater director. Great chops, great voice.

So what, right? Imagine having a 50-something person in the audience approach and say "You played at my wedding!". Well not me, but the band leader. Or having nearly 100 people show up to dance, party (yeah, it's a mellow party ... grin!), and just have some fun. Still attracting new-comers, who become regulars. No bar fights, no arguing with the management to get paid, everyone in the band conducts themselves like pros.

All this really sounds terrible, doesn't it? :)
 
I also find it strange with the younger age criteria. While he has the right to state what he wants, i am pretty sure most potential bandmates in that age group will see it as a red flag and he will not actually be getting the bandmates he is asking for. He is also being too vague on why he wants younger players and apparently lacks self awareness to know that his ad might give off some strange impressions. Imagine having a person like that as a band leader...
 
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A small part of me wants to be offended for being excluded based on age issues - I had absolutely no say in when I was born, all I’ve done towards making myself old is… not die.

On the other hand, despite being too old for whoever this guy is, I really don’t have time to worry about his problems - I have a lot of gigs to prepare for.
 
English is not my first or best language, but maybe when he say "older, jaded" he mean both of these words together. To say another way, is OK to be old, but you must think as young person, having openness for new ideas, not be old in the mind and think only your way is the best or only way.
 
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My own observation is that people often tend to have more than a passive role in their own bad experiences. Someone who leads with authority and negativity is likely to be difficult to deal with. He isn't offering enough information to guess where his proposition lands on the "music, money, hang" triangle.

My socks don't show when I'm playing, because... I'm wearing pants.