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o dear.

That drummer is not that bad, IMO, hey- at least he doesnt speed up and get obnoxiously loud.

But his girlfriend "vocalist".... o dear. Houston, we have a problem.....

I agree, the drummer is not bad, and he works hard on his short comings. If I put in as much practice time as he does, I would be able to take my playing to the next level.

1- You're pretty good on bass. :)

2- The vocalist isn't very good at anything.

3- Pay to play is not acceptable.

4- Your band name is cheesy as hell. :)

I'd find a new band that you're not embarrassed to play with. Good luck!

Thanks!

One of the better threads to enjoy here today at TB. Thanks for posting.

I thought you guys might enjoy this.

For our future entertainment, please share you gig stories after the band performs them.

Will do. Next one is 10/27 and we have one, maybe two practices between now and then.

Don't walk. RUN away.

The money here says that things won't get any better.

(Since I couldn't leave you with a positive message, I figure two negative ones are equivalent in value.)

I'll count it.

Look on the bright side - you have a cool looking avatar! :)

:bassist:
 
i checked out the video ... and wow, i think there was one song the drummer was really all over the place, and you and the guitar player ended up playing different chords for the whole intro while you kept looking at the drummer.

hmmm... i can relate, i also have singer and drummer problems.

i kinda think my singer is in the same level as your singer .... so it is bad lol
 
The music does have a great groove to it, and you’re doing a great job.

She’s easy on the eyes, but… maybe someone should be helping out with some backups or something. Has the drummer every said anything about her vocals? Maybe you’ll all get lucky and they’ll break up.

A good singer would make a big difference; the band isn't going too far with her there.
 
"Fused with blues and funk, loudSILENCE aims it's sight on taking the local scene by storm. The chemistry between the members generates an atmosphere that becomes intoxicating, making you move to a sound created for a generation, by musicians who love playing music as much as they love listening to it."

take your guitar player and run, man. big ups for being transparent :)
 
Formed in Charlotte, in June 2011, loudSILENCE is bringing a new style to Charlotte's alternative scene. Fused with blues and funk, loudSILENCE aims it's sight on taking the local scene by storm. The chemistry between the members generates an atmosphere that becomes intoxicating, making you move to a sound created for a generation, by musicians who love playing music as much as they love listening to it. This is loudSILENCE, do you hear it?

OMG, who came up with THAT?!!! I felt dirty just reading it!!!
 
Well, the sound is not THAT bad overall. Personally, I think you and the guitarist are pretty good. I like your funky playing (and love your bass!). The drummer is ok.

Maybe the intro of the song (I was listening to "Fine- Distorted Contentment") was kinda chaotic, but the rest of the song is pretty funky and catchy.

The singer isn't horrible, IMHO, but a bit on a flat side. Her voice certainly didn't turn me on or anything.
 
Time for an update.

We had our final practice last night before our first real gig tonight. I had been thinking all week about if I really wanted to spend my free time with this band. A couple of comments were made (not directed at me) that annoyed me enough to push me over to the 'not worth it' side of things. So I told them that Jan. 12th would be my last gig with them. I told them I would help find a replacement and help that replacement learn the material if need be. They took it really well, and started the search for a new bass player about 10 min after I left (Craigslist). All in all, this was a good learning (if not paying) experience and I will definatly spend a bit more time looking for my next opprotunity.

Thanks for all your comments, they really helped affirm what I already knew and helped me get it together to get out of there.

Anybody in Charlotte looking for a new gig? :D