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I've never been so mad or hurt...

#141
jmattbassplaya said:
You're getting close, but I still don't think you 100% get it. You need to remove yourself from Mary completely. Don't start thinking about you two possibly rekindling any sort or romance or friendship in the future. She screwed you over so don't give her the satisfaction of being your friend ever again. You can still tap her if she decides to come around, but that's all it should ever be. No more.
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Well, that's what I meant. I definitely don't want any type of "romance", and I dont really want to be her friend (as a person, not even as an ex, but just as a human). So ill just live my life for me from now on. At skrillex I'm gonna ignore her completely, and just have fun dancing. I don't see her as anything more than another chick I might get to ****, but not anything worth trying - if she falls on my lap then great, but if not, I don't miss her there.
 
#142
jmattbassplaya said:
I grew up only having a mom so I can definitely relate to being much more sympathetic and kind towards people than most other males. Unfortunately, that has gotten me screwed over a lot. I'm not saying you should turn into a buttmunch or not be a nice person, but what I am trying to tell you is that you can be a kind, caring, and compassionate person and still get yours.
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I like the way you think. I will take my heart off my sleeve and put carry around a %%%% in a box. Yes! This reminds of that Family Guy episode where Brian teaches remedial English.. and the class gets the impression they can be ditch diggers and hookers! I can be playa! :hyper::hyper:

NateS said:
It's creepy how similar we are. I've always had an almost reverence for the female body.
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It is crazy. Next thing you are going to tell me is that your favorite band is Pink Floyd. And not just one of those people who like The Wall or Dark Side (even though they are amazing) but a Atom Mother Suite type of dude, or a Obscured by Clouds type of deal.
 
#143
Papa Dangerous said:
It is crazy. Next thing you are going to tell me is that your favorite band is Pink Floyd. And not just one of those people who like The Wall or Dark Side (even though they are amazing) but a Atom Mother Suite type of dude, or a Obscured by Clouds type of deal.
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Actually, I haven't spent a lot of time listening to Pink Floyd, but everything I've heard I liked. I generally been listening to electronic dance music lately, but my musical tastes change pretty often. I keep meaning to listen to more classic rock, maybe I should...
 
#144
NateS said:
Actually, I haven't spent a lot of time listening to Pink Floyd, but everything I've heard I liked. I generally been listening to electronic dance music lately, but my musical tastes change pretty often. I keep meaning to listen to more classic rock, maybe I should...
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okay, as long as you are not my twin, all is cool. I highly recommend it, but I am a Floyd head.. so that is expected. When you really start to get into them, and learn about the band members (mostly Waters) you get a decent idea of how his brain worked... as if he dealt with a personality disorder. There have been a few good write ups on TB about him, and how people believe he suffered from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I mean, its not the most interesting stuff... but it is definitely interesting if one wanted to understand how Floyd came up with a such a huge portion of their music. Of the pains, and issues he dealt with, but managed by putting them into song.
 
#145
Papa Dangerous said:
I like the way you think. I will take my heart off my sleeve and put carry around a %%%% in a box. Yes! This reminds of that Family Guy episode where Brian teaches remedial English.. and the class gets the impression they can be ditch diggers and hookers! I can be playa! :hyper::hyper:

It is crazy. Next thing you are going to tell me is that your favorite band is Pink Floyd. And not just one of those people who like The Wall or Dark Side (even though they are amazing) but a Atom Mother Suite type of dude, or a Obscured by Clouds type of deal.
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There's nothing unique about being a fan of Pink Floyd's entire catalog. They were one of the most successful bands in rock history. No brother from another mother magic there.

Sincerely,

Buzz Killington

PS: Not that there's anything wrong with going gay for each other, but when I said quantity I didn't mean going the Matticus route in your pursuit of chicks. But heck it sure would explain why these chicks dropped you guys. :D
 
#146
MakiSupaStar said:
There's nothing unique about being a fan of Pink Floyd's entire catalog. They were one of the most successful bands in rock history. No brother from another mother magic there.

Sincerely,

Buzz Killington

PS: Not that there's anything wrong with going gay for each other, but when I said quantity I didn't mean going the Matticus route in your pursuit of chicks. But heck it sure would explain why these chicks dropped you guys. :D
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lmao. I know it is common, I was kinda trying to be humorous and pick something probable.

And I totally was like not going like gay for him, that's like totally not my style.
 
#147
Your "relationship" was doomed before it began. This is a sordid tale of three of the most immature people imagineable. Then you perpetuate the agony with a sort of self-pleasuring writhing in the cesspool of avaricious emotions you have created. A person with just an iota of wisdom would do an immediate clean break from these two and get on with life. Of course, that would have to be something you want. I get the sense you have some perverse need to wallow in this.

Like a friend of mine recently said, "Life is a buffet. Get yourself a clean plate and get back in line."
 
#150
NateS said:
So, TB opinion, should I put the geeb on her doorstep?
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What is a geeb?

NateS said:
Smoking apparatus
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Nevermind. Never heard that term. Im still not sure what it is, though.

edit: google search cleared it up.

Ha, I posted a picture of my wife on here somewhere. Later I noticed the 2L bottle "GB" was included in the shot, lol.
 
#152
jmattbassplaya said:
You're too young to be 'giving your all' to someone. You're young - be greedy for a while! Take what you want to take, do what you want to do, and think about yourself for a while. When you have kids you won't have the opportunity to do what you're able to do right now, so live it up!
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Yup. I learned that s*** the hard way. I was in a similar position when I was 16 or so, and it cost me a great deal of tail because I wanted something "real". You know whats real? Being 16 and getting your d*** wet! "True love" BS doesnt happen at an age when you havent even figured out who you are! Get out there and get experienced. Once youre tired of that (and it'll be a long long time) THEN youre ready to settle down.
 
#153
MakiSupaStar said:
Not that there's anything wrong with going gay for each other, but when I said quantity I didn't mean going the Matticus route in your pursuit of chicks. But heck it sure would explain why these chicks dropped you guys. :D
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Hey hey hey! Im not sure exactly what you mean by that, but I got plenty of chicks along the way! And now I still get chicks while my wife watches! So I think I win.
 
#157
Nate,
Have you never been told to not trust a cheater? If someone cheats on you, they don't trust you or themselves and they will do it again. Also, your "best friend" sounds like an ******* to me. Even after you explained that you had feelings for her and such he had sex with her behind your back. Why are you even still talking to this creep? Start over. Find better friends and better people to associate with. You sound like a decent guy and I don't believe that anyone deserves to be cheated on.
Things will hurt for a while.. but through that pain you will find a way to live and feel again without her, and without him. You will. I promise. ^_^
So smile.
 

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