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Just realised I am a douche

Until roughly March of this year, I played in a rockabilly band that had been going not-so-strong for close to 8 or 9 years. We weren't very good, didn't sound very professional and had a typical prima donna singer.

He was the main cause of the issues we faced and the reason why the band finally imploded when the guitarist decided to leave. We would suggest new songs and he would either not learn them or try them once, then say "No, it's not working. Let's try *insert random Mike Ness song here* instead".

Anyway, the guitarist moved on to a very, very good originals act that is going strong and building a following. I moved on to a blues band with potential, that is slowly going places, and the drummer joined the army. I don't hear much from the singer and am sure neither of the other two have heard anything at all.

Last weekend I was at a gig of the guitarist's new band, and we talked about how we missed the rockabilly thing. One thing led to another and we decided to form a sort of project/band with the drummer and with the singer of the originals act (who is good, by the way). The idea is to just book a show, rehearse a few times for it and then see what comes next. Handful of shows a year at best.

Whilst we immediately agreed to pick a new name and change the set list a bit (finally get to pick some songs we always wanted to do) I realised that we basically made the douchy split-and-reform move, rather than fire the singer. And okay, different name, slightly different set list and we will rework some arrangements, but still ... Douchy :(
 
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No, you're all good!
 
Definitely wasn't planned, no. I always liked playing with these guys, but towards the end it was just sad. If we gigged, which happened every so often, it'd be the same 15 - 18 songs (cover songs! rockabilly cover songs! lasting about 2 - 3 minutes each!), just in a different order. Even our friends, who were our only fans to begin with, stopped coming.

I love keeping silly lists and was just going over the list of songs we used to play with the "original" band. Towards the end we had 23 active songs, 4 of which consequently got dropped. 7 other had previously been dropped, and we had suggested 20 other songs, none of which actually made the cut ... The new singer already knows about all 50 of those so we would be good to go for a full set with about 3 rehearsals at best.
 

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