I made a conscious decision a decade ago to STOP STAREING AT MY LEFT HAND. I started to practice in the dark, then, started playing with my eyes closed at gigs. I guess it worked. Now my current band mates bitch at me because they can't make eye contact with me. I'm embarassed but, in my defense, I do have good ears. I'm struggleing to gig with my eyes open and I AM getting better at it. So, fret dots? Not so much.