But at home you choice of potential partners is very linited.Well, if that is true, I think it is very sad, IMHO. Cringe at the sound of a live band??? One might as well stay home and dance to their iPod or stereo. Again, IMHO.
Not to mention that who will see your cool new lumber sexual outfit, your manbun, or your pointy shoes? And there will be no compliments on the pleasent smell of your beard conditioning oil or you antique (real) tortise shell framed glasses.
People gather to dance as a way to meet and pair up, the music and how it’s delivered are really as incidental as all the rest of the current trends. Here it’s brewpubs. They can make beer but can only sell it on site so taprooms geared to maximum profit are the norm and they all have a corner where a DJ can set up a small table which is also where the interface for connecting into the very nice house A/V system is. I’ve been out a few times to see my nephew the DJ and he’s working the sights and sounds, and the crowd, even those talking are all bobbing to the beat. I call his work infectious grooves because it’s near constant and very bass heavy. This allows people to dance when they are ready and anyone with a pulse can follow the music.
If my nephews show is typical of the DJ experience these days, it is much more accessable to the listener and makes music a part of the decor rather than the focus of the room.
And last but certainly not least is the rooms i’ve seen my nephew work in have the sound engineered to match the layout of the room. Where open spaces exist, the music is very present, but at the bar or in conversation areas it’s closer to muzak levels. You still feel the beat from the dance areas, but you can hold a conversation without having to yell over the PA.
From what little i’ve seen of a bar featuring a DJ, it is a much more refined version of the live band thing. The intent is still exactly the same, finding a sex partner utilizing the presex dance ritual and the proper social lubricant, but dancing is no longer having to wait on the right song and it is possible to have a conversation over drinks like a fern bar, but the shake it on down pit is just steps away rather than around the block or halfway across town.

