Great topic! I'm also at the point where I cant remember a new song I just learned 3 months ago, but I remember some random song I played in HS 40 years ago. Sad. Anyway, I digress, and attempt to get back on topic...
I was watching 2010 Crossroads Guitar Festival that I recorded the other night from several years ago. Most bands had at least a few musicians with sheets taped to their Keys, or taped to the floor. Maybe setlists..., maybe a reminder of the key..., or maybe lyrics... Also, virtually every serious touring band I've been involved with has a few monitors facing the band for reminders of things like that. But a music stand, to me, in this day, is a non starter for anything other than a jazz band, orchestra, or something more formal. But iPads on the floor, or paper taped to the floor, or even an iPad on a mic stand (if you are using the mic) or on top of an amp, that's everywhere. I don't think that bothers anyone, as long as you can play to the audience and interact with the rest of the band, and not have to stare at it to remember what to play.
My .02c
I was watching 2010 Crossroads Guitar Festival that I recorded the other night from several years ago. Most bands had at least a few musicians with sheets taped to their Keys, or taped to the floor. Maybe setlists..., maybe a reminder of the key..., or maybe lyrics... Also, virtually every serious touring band I've been involved with has a few monitors facing the band for reminders of things like that. But a music stand, to me, in this day, is a non starter for anything other than a jazz band, orchestra, or something more formal. But iPads on the floor, or paper taped to the floor, or even an iPad on a mic stand (if you are using the mic) or on top of an amp, that's everywhere. I don't think that bothers anyone, as long as you can play to the audience and interact with the rest of the band, and not have to stare at it to remember what to play.
My .02c
