I don't see it as winning or losing.
It's life. It may not sound so good now but in time you'll remember the good times and still have sense enough to keep moving foward, and away from trouble.
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My ex is a lying cheating whore
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I don't see it as winning or losing.
It's life. It may not sound so good now but in time you'll remember the good times and still have sense enough to keep moving foward, and away from trouble.
A move forward to civilization would be to make marriage as hard to get into as it is to out of.
Simply fair.
I've always liked Montreal. The old town by the water for whatever reason, I've always enjoyed.
I kinda considered Suzanne a song to Montreal. Perhaps more the old town that St Catherine Street.
Oh old sage bawana, tell me the secrets to a life well lived. Share your knowledge with us mere mortals old sage bawana.
The secret to a life well lived? It's too bad but my life was lived by the time if figured most of this out.
I try to avoid negativity. Things like envy, jealousy, hatred. Perhaps the worst of these things is seeking revenge on people.
I've found the best "revenge" is to enjoy your life. A minute spent hating is minute not spent loving.
And trying to be less attached to physical possessions.
One of my friends has gotten her self a stay at the Stone Hotel. Seeing this puts Flats V Rounds into perspective.
She destroyed her life just to get back at her EX. I doubt he knows she's still alive.
I'm hardly prefect but I try.
I find serial monogamy works. People grow. Men learn things, they change perspective.
And our needs change. We were never meant to be living this long. So we have to change our way of living to adapt.
Think of the kinda of gal you wanted 30 years ago.
I'll bet it's different from what you would like today. This is an extreme case but it makes it easy to view.
I was being sarcastic but thanks anyways for the answer old sage bawana.
Tips are welcome!
When things like this happen I think it's the tendency of most people to attempt to affix blame rather than just stepping away and getting on with their lives.
Humans' are flawed creatures. Looking for perfection is ourselves or others isn't going to work.
This will make some people upset but in all probability there isn't "fault."
It's just people being what they be. Flaws and all.
I think someone asked about there being more polemics, adversarialiality, and more of a things being black and white.
I don't think things, as in human interactions, are really black and white but a constantly shifting field of grey. People like the clear lines of a black and white world. The greys are confusing. But I think that where reality is.
My first serious girlfriend cheated on me with at least 3 guys - woo long distance relationships! She's since put on at least 100 pounds and failed out uni and community college, the latter being something I didn't think was possible, and can't seem to hold a job. Karma is unforgiving, to say the least.
Yep.
It makes me think of this song, one of my warm up tunes that I play quite often:
Who's making love to your ol'lady, while you are out making love?
kickass bass line!
Agreed. If there is blame to be assigned in these kind of situations I find it usually can be apportioned in equal amounts to both sides. It's never as cut and dried and one-sided as either of the parties involved would have you believe.
I'll take two please!!
Semantics maybe.. I would say rather that people tend to be non-monogamous, but monogamy can and does work.
Depends on the individual(s) and may also depend on age and one's stage in life.
People is not a lot of stuff by nature, we don't have wings yet we fly and we move on top of wheels, do you think that is natural?
Monogamy is a choice, if you choose to fail to it then it shows your lack of ethics and values - don't blame nature!
It's ok to stop loving someone, but you don't have to cheat on them to solve the problem, just be honest break up and move on.
