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My ex is a lying cheating whore

#81
chicago_mike said:
D E L E T E N O W
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is anyone else curious what he posted to get two responses saying to delete it?

thats the thing about lying cheating whores, is that they always find someone else to do it all with. they usually have great asses though. just remember what craig ferguson said "i lost half my stuff twice because of great asses. if you think about it, thats all my stuff once!"
 
#84
jmverdugo said:
People is not a lot of stuff by nature, we don't have wings yet we fly and we move on top of wheels, do you think that is natural?

Monogamy is a choice, if you choose to fail to it then it shows your lack of ethics and values - don't blame nature! ;)

It's ok to stop loving someone, but you don't have to cheat on them to solve the problem, just be honest break up and move on.
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The desire for convenience (in travel or otherwise) is very much part of human nature! I'm not saying monogamy can't or never does work (and yes, people can choose how they act when it comes to responding to certain natural urges). But we are hardwired a certain way and no amount of "ethics and values" is going to change that. As another poster suggested, it's much more grey than it is black or white. I think that the more we understand and accept that, the easier it is to deal with something like being cheated on.

And Quebec girls are the best. :D
 
#85
two fingers said:
My first wife not only cheated on me, but she did it with my DRUMMER. The little skank broke up a marriage and a rhythm section at the SAME TIME. (I actually miss the drummer.) JLY and Edward G. hit it on the head. Find peace and be happy. She is about to be on a roller coaster. (They always end up screwing up more than once.) Her life will be rough for quite a while. Don't go on the same ride. Work out. Lose some weight (unless you are already healthy). Play more gigs. Be happy. It drives them NUTS when you do that. Two of my exes (one wife, one long-term girlfriend) still contact me every now and then. They try to bring misery into my life (which is impossible) because they can't STAND the fact that I was able to move on from them rather than crawl into some hole and shrivel up and die without them.

Drive her nuts! Go be happy! (After you lick your wounds for a little while, of course.)

Best of luck. Hang in there brother! There is life after the whore! I promise! I'm living proof!
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Being happy is the best revenge and the best cure!

My ex with our four kids tried her hardest to get me to give up everything that I did outside if family.i gave up friends and lifestyle but wouldn't give up music. I teach and play for a living ..tax returns , lesson plans, long drives to gigs where you stay sober , acting as your own agent , learning songs etc etc. this all constitutes as fun and I should have had a normal 9 to 5 earning less money !!!

Now I can do all that and not have someone knocking it down. Not many women can in my experience can handle a musician ...but what I'm getting it is that it was music that held me together and stayed faithful to me. As long as you have music then you'll be alright. My ex still tries to slag off my line of work and interfere with my life now but just hold your smile and it will reap its benefits!
 
#86
nashvillebill said:
A friend of mine says:

You don't pay a hooker for sex......you pay her to LEAVE!
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And not to talk about herself. She's there for the money and time is money.

lowfreq33 said:
Next time I think about getting married I'm just going to find a woman I hate and buy her a house.
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I would volunteer for that! I have a great house picked out and it's not really all that expensive. If you wanted, you could even come crash on the couch occasionally or hang out in the back yard with the dog. LOL! :hiding:


OP - in all seriousness, you dodged a bullet. It's too bad she wasn't bright enough to tell you she was out before she started acting like she was out, but it's done. You don't need that kind of drama and negativity in your life. Move on. Focus on what you want and go get it. Meet girls. LOTS of girls. Get some from all of them (but safely). Quantity over quality for a while. At some point, you'll cross paths with the one who is for you. There's no need to rush around looking for that. It'll happen. If you just need to have a relationship, have one with yourself. (I've been doing that since '99 and it's been awesome. I think I'm the one!)
 
#87
sorry to hear that chuck

A great man once said AHEM...

You say you want my trust and
Told me you were leavin'.
How am I to know that you won't do it to me?
You're tellin' me it's different
But what the hell is different
If you cheated on him you'll do it to me.

You're creepin' on him for me,
But you say just trust me.
How am I to know that you won't do it to me?
You're tellin' me it's different
But what the hell is different
If you cheated on him you'll do it to me.

Let the new guy deal with her crap now. When you're ready to you can find yourself a quality woman
 
#89
nashvillebill said:
A friend of mine says:

You don't pay a hooker for sex......you pay her to LEAVE!
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Youre friends with Charlie Sheen?

chicago_mike said:
You know about backpage right?
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Backpage?

BawanaRik said:
I don't see it as winning or losing.

It's life. It may not sound so good now but in time you'll remember the good times and still have sense enough to keep moving foward, and away from trouble.
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Dont take me too seriously now. #winning
Im living well. I have no idea what shes up to. I dont really care. Sure, we had some good times, but that time is now past. Im still having good times.

bass12 said:
People are not monogamous by nature. Thousands of years into it and we still can't accept that...
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Some of us have, and have managed to work out how to be in a relationship.

BawanaRik said:
We were never meant to be living this long.
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If we werent meant to live this long then we wouldnt be...
 
#91
My first wife was a cheating lying drug addict who ran off with a coke/meth dealer. She was crazy, so crazy that I thought she was the Antichrist...I was so convinced she was the Antichrist that one night when whe was wasted and past out I shaved her head to check for the sign of the beast.

Well, I was wrong...she wasn't the Antichrist...but she was close...her number was "665"...
 
#92
Face it man, some girls just like getting all hot and sweaty with other dudes either out of a lack of morales or just a desire to do so with no rhyme or reason. Some men do the same thing with women...and occasionally with other men. $&@% happens. Move on.
 
#98
bass12 said:
The desire for convenience (in travel or otherwise) is very much part of human nature! I'm not saying monogamy can't or never does work (and yes, people can choose how they act when it comes to responding to certain natural urges). But we are hardwired a certain way and no amount of "ethics and values" is going to change that. As another poster suggested, it's much more grey than it is black or white. I think that the more we understand and accept that, the easier it is to deal with something like being cheated on.

And Quebec girls are the best. :D
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The ethics and value part doesn't come up to change the " human nature", if you want to hook up with another person other than your regular partner I guess you can do it for sure, i believe in your right as a living person to look for your happiness and unhappiness, my point is that you can do so without cheating. In my opinion cheating comes because you have both the urge of going after another experience and the fear of being alone, both part of human nature.

In other words the problem is not having problems with monogamy, the problem is being a liar and a coward and a selfish person.
 
#99
jmverdugo said:
The ethics and value part doesn't come up to change the " human nature", if you want to hook up with another person other than your regular partner I guess you can do it for sure, i believe in your right as a living person to look for your happiness and unhappiness, my point is that you can do so without cheating. In my opinion cheating comes because you have both the urge of going after another experience and the fear of being alone, both part of human nature.

In other words the problem is not having problems with monogamy, the problem is being a liar and a coward and a selfish person.
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Maybe she doesn't think she's cheating.
 

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